MoogleViper Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 I wish people would stop assuming I'm fucking my best friend. Whenever you're close friends with somebody of the opposite sex, people always assume this.
nightwolf Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Whenever you're close friends with somebody of the opposite sex, people always assume this. They do and for the most part - its fine. But its been a driving wedge recently.
Rummy Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Whenever you're close friends with somebody of the opposite sex, people always assume this. Nobody seems to assume that of me
Serebii Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 (edited) Again I get messaged, I send a response...nothing. Two weeks ago, I got a response from a message I sent, I responded to that and nothing. Edited February 4, 2014 by Serebii
Ramar Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Again I get messaged, I send a response...nothing. Two weeks ago, I got a response from a message I sent, I responded to that and nothing. Not everyone is keen to reply/online all the time. Did you follow it up with a question/show some interest in their profile? In other news, I got a wall of text message on Sunday, I didn't reply, got another message from the same girl last night. I don't know whether I should reply out of courtesy or not? Her pictures (which I'm assuming are from halloween) kind of scare me.
nightwolf Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 I seem to get a few messages, I've responded to most of them, then nothing. Online dating and/or making friends is tough. I've also sent out a few messages when I know they've taken a look at my profile. *shrug*
Serebii Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Not everyone is keen to reply/online all the time. Did you follow it up with a question/show some interest in their profile? In other news, I got a wall of text message on Sunday, I didn't reply, got another message from the same girl last night. I don't know whether I should reply out of courtesy or not? Her pictures (which I'm assuming are from halloween) kind of scare me. I know, but two weeks is a bit long to wait, and yeah I did.
Daft Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Send more messages to more people. It's a game of numbers.
Sheikah Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Yes, even a turd can attract many flies. Sorry, I'm not really helping...
Raining_again Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Thanks for all the responses everyone I think I just needed a vent, and to be talked down from my silliness. I am happy with my OH, I don't really intend to leave him over how I feel now. I think its just super odd for me as its probably my first significant grown up relationship. Dealing with all the new stuff, and not having as much alone time gets to me a bit... I'm used to being a loner!!!
Jamba Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Thanks for all the responses everyone I think I just needed a vent, and to be talked down from my silliness. I am happy with my OH, I don't really intend to leave him over how I feel now. I think its just super odd for me as its probably my first significant grown up relationship. Dealing with all the new stuff, and not having as much alone time gets to me a bit... I'm used to being a loner!!! You use OH in your posts a lot... you go on LoveHoney don't you :p
Charlie Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Dealing with all the new stuff, and not having as much alone time gets to me a bit... I'm used to being a loner!!! I love my alone time. I made sure on Sunday night that I had absolutely no plans and had a night just to myself. It's very rare I can actually do that and it was great to recharge the batteries.
rizz Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Been chatting with the girl I messaged last night. It's died down for now but I think I can pick it back up tomorrow. Fun convo, most lol worthy excerpt: Her: Do not cross me adventurer. You'll find more than an arrow in your knee if you do. +1 intimidation Me: I take a test of charisma and roll a 6, melting away your desire to put things in my knees. We share a drink and continue to get friendly. Her: Hahah! Does the roll increase your desire to put things in me?
Sheikah Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Been chatting with the girl I messaged last night. It's died down for now but I think I can pick it back up tomorrow. Fun convo, most lol worthy excerpt: Her: Do not cross me adventurer. You'll find more than an arrow in your knee if you do. +1 intimidation Me: I take a test of charisma and roll a 6, melting away your desire to put things in my knees. We share a drink and continue to get friendly. Her: Hahah! Does the roll increase your desire to put things in me? Oh saucy. She may soon be taking a roll of your D.
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Whenever you're close friends with somebody of the opposite sex, people always assume this. Sometimes even when you're close friends with somebody of your own sex.
Diageo Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 People think you're banging all your friends if you're bi.
rizz Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Looks like I've moved from rolling dice to rolling bowling balls next week. Level up.
Ramar Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 The cougars are after me. A 34 year old messaged me and a 39 year old liked me.
S.C.G Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Well it seems like the person who I was talking to has now deleted her account or blocked me for some unknown reason, I really don't know what to say or think at this point, we seemed to be getting on rather well.
MoogleViper Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Well it seems like the person who I was talking to has now deleted her account or blocked me for some unknown reason, I really don't know what to say or think at this point, we seemed to be getting on rather well. Could be that she was also chatting/dating somebody else, and she's no longer on the market.
Blade Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 The cougars are after me. A 34 year old messaged me and a 39 year old liked me. 34 yo and a 39 yo are a bit young for our @kav82 :P
Kav Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 34 yo and a 39 yo are a bit young for our @kav82 :P Cheeky sod... although it's true, for some reason the old birds love me.
MoogleViper Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Been chatting to Miss K on IM at work. Laying down some real groundwork. It's a colleague's birthday tomorrow so we're gonna go out. Hopefully it'll be a chance to kick things up a notch. I'm aware I've probably lost the respect of many of you.
Fierce_LiNk Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 We're just happy to see a brother get laid, brah. Edit: Or try to, if unsuccessful.
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