Josh64 Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Will you be my best man (official term for wedding is bstmte) and sing Always on my mind? And apparently I made him blush today, oh man I can't breathe.
Ashley Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 I shall do it wearing this: Naturally the back would be cut out, in honour of the groom.
Diageo Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Is it a smart idea to go out with someone you're not particularly attracted to, but you think are a really nice person?
Charlie Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Banjo can be the ring bearer! You mean the ring bear?
Ellmeister Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 You mean the ring bear? I think that was the joke?
Emma Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Is it a smart idea to go out with someone you're not particularly attracted to, but you think are a really nice person? Nope! Being attracted to someone is important, why deny yourself that? I tried it and it didn't work out. We were more like best friends or brother and sister, it always felt awkward.
Rummy Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Is it a smart idea to go out with someone you're not particularly attracted to, but you think are a really nice person? I wouldn't say it's a smart idea, but then I also wouldn't pretend that I wouldn't do it. You'd have to ask yourself though, what would you think if you were in their shoes?
Ashley Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Earlier this year I went through something similar, in as much as someone said they liked me and I flailed for a bit as I do like her and enjoyed her company, but there wasn't really a sexual spark there (for me anyway). One of my friends just basically said "can you see yourself sleeping with her?" and that kind of helped make me realise that it wasn't right and really I just wanted a friendship. And now she's moving to Canada and if I'd been with her I could have gone too...but that's life
Daft Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Is it a smart idea to go out with someone you're not particularly attracted to, but you think are a really nice person? No, run like a nuclear wind.
Fierce_LiNk Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Is it a smart idea to go out with someone you're not particularly attracted to, but you think are a really nice person? You're already in a relationship with these people, brah. They're called your friends.
The Bard Posted December 21, 2013 Posted December 21, 2013 Attraction is a continuum, and it depends on whether it falls somewhere at least above zero. If you have some attraction to the person in question, and the quality of their personality promises to ensure the full tumescence of your manunit where just their physical attraction wouldn't, then by all means go for it. Physical and character driven/ sapiosexual attraction feed off each other, and so long as you don't find this person actively repulsive, it doesn't matter if you want, upon first sight, to throw them down upon the hearthrug while their mouth says "No" but their firelit eyes scream "Yes!," so long as you like them. We can't all be me after all.
Ashley Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Went for a drink with someone on Friday and they've now blocked me on the app we met on so... chances are slim for a second one I'm starting to think I have a horrible personality (Shut up Bard)
Blade Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Went for a drink with someone on Friday and they've now blocked me on the app we met on so... chances are slim for a second one I'm starting to think I have a horrible personality (Shut up Bard) Never had that happen to me. Pretty harsh! Anything you can think of during the date where it didnt go well or was it a complete shock?
Ashley Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I prefer to know (even in this manner) that nothing is going to happen. I can't think of anything (it was literally a chat and drink) so must just have been a lack of chemistry I guess. Got a few more penciled in for when I get back to London. Maybe one day I'll have a second date
Fierce_LiNk Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 Maybe he had too much passion for you that meant if he didn't get rid of it immediately (making love at you right there and then) then he would've gone and committed a violent crime that very night. I think you dodged a bullet there, brah.
Ashley Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I'm pretty chill about it. Just realised earlier that in spite of having about ten dates in the last two months, I've not had a second. Amused me.
The Bard Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I've never knowingly been on a date, but it sounds ghastly making pretend that you care about the trivia of a person's obviously shit life when in reality all they are to you is life support for a warm orifice.
Ashley Posted December 23, 2013 Posted December 23, 2013 I don't mind going on dates as, providing they're not an awful person that I'd not picked up on before, it's a good way to meet people outside of your circle and just get an insight into their life. I just wish more people were interested in doing something more than just going for a drink. I enjoy doing that, but there's so much more to do in London it seems kind of a shame to waste it in pubs.
Diageo Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 I'm pretty chill about it. Just realised earlier that in spite of having about ten dates in the last two months, I've not had a second. Amused me. I've sort of had the same problem. Maybe it's a gay thing.
Ike Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Managed to talk to RandomBusGirl though I had to do it when after we got off at the stop so didn't talk to her as long as I would have liked, but still. Wasn't even nervous while talking to her this time, though I think I talked a little too much. At least she talked back, so she's polite at least. :p Too bad I have to wait at least a week to try and talk to her again if I haven't scared her off. So yeah, in a good mood. Can't believe I worried about it so much before. :/ Just realised I forgot to ask her name, doh
drahkon Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Managed to talk to RandomBusGirl Just woke up, all tired and shit thinking "Dude, Ike talked to RandomBushGirl?" Ask her name next time
Josh64 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Me and Mexican boy are like Jason Donovan and Kylie right now, yesterday got especially heated. We were chatting away and then he said "I want to sleep with you." I couldn't tell if his English was going iffy again (it tends to do that later we speak :P) or if he'd suddely just got very blunt. Anyway, the conversation that followed almost made my iPhone overheat again. My god, man. I hope this guy isn't a cat fish :p
Ashley Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Not that I'm betting against you, but I'd love to see you on Catfish.
Josh64 Posted December 24, 2013 Posted December 24, 2013 Fun fact: I don't know about the TV series, but the guy on the actual documentary of Catfish made my heart melt. Dat chest hair.
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