Don't forget personality and body!
Moog - did you not send a text earlier in the day asking if still up for meeting up? Surely you always need to double check!
Also, I've been the 'other' guy, this was back when we were all like 15 so I don't feel bad about it but now I couldn't do it and neither should you. Like others have said, think how you would feel if you were the guy.
Plus no chance of anything more happening because could never trust her!