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Also tbf there's only like 1 Billion who are in an age bracket (of 10 years) around that of yourself.

 

LMAO! This is going to have to be changed to "There are quite a lot of people you might be compatible with. If you met them."

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I really don't get how some of you guys manage to be so terrible at dating. It's like you've given up before you've even started because of what might happen in some weird alternate reality. I really could smack some of you upside the head. Dating is easy, and it's fun, and the worst that can possibly happen is you have a funny story to tell your mates and a bit more experience to do better next time.

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I really don't get how some of you guys manage to be so terrible at dating. It's like you've given up before you've even started because of what might happen in some weird alternate reality. I really could smack some of you upside the head. Dating is easy' date=' and it's fun, and the worst that can possibly happen is you have a funny story to tell your mates and a bit more experience to do better next time.[/quote']

 

 

Sorry, but this post is just arrogant as hell. You're right, some of us have almost given up, and that has become pretty deeply rooted psychologically in some of us. It's easy enough for someone not dealing with something in their mind to say to others to just "get over it" (or "stop it!"), but the world just doesn't work that way. You can't just tell a depressed person to cheer up; you can't just tell a person with a phobia to stop being afraid. Likewise, you can't just tell a person suffering from a crumbling low self-esteem to believe in him- or herself - it just isn't that simple. This isn't simply a matter of rational analysis, because then we wouldn't be having any problems.

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What you've gotta remember @will&\#39; is that some of these peeps have serious personality defects.

This.

 

If I was psychologically assessed, I'd probably get sectioned...

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Also tbf there's only like 1 Billion who are in an age bracket (of 10 years) around that of yourself.

 

1 billion? That's a heeellll of a lot of people. It shouldn't be made out to be a negative thing. It's a great thing.

 

You don't particularly have to be great with girls to "pull" on a date. I did a loooooooad of stupid shit when I initially met Ine. Three years later, I have ensnared her in my trap.

 

The problem is that we men seem to have it in our minds that these women only expect perfection, and that they are perfection themselves. Nobody is perfect. They won't go off you because you say silly stuff. It's not actually as huge a thing as we make it out to be. If you can speak to another person without killing them or making them angry, then you can do so to a woman. If not, then you're talking to the wrong one. :heh:

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i laughed at odders comment, but in all seriousness, its not the same for everyone! Some people just don't have this magical "x factor" or whatever you want to call it. Most of us mere mortals muddle along and are fortunate we come across a person that is attracted to go near us once in a blue moon..

 

You can say "fake it til you make it" or just do it, but then you aren't being yourself when you faux confidence you don't have. Yeah you be yourself, but hide the 20 cats or so in the cupboard until they start to like your good qualities :indeed:

 

The problem is that we men seem to have it in our minds that people only expect perfection, and that they are perfection themselves. Nobody is perfect. They won't go off you because you say silly stuff. It's not actually as huge a thing as we make it out to be. If you can speak to another person without killing them or making them angry, then you can do so to a woman. If not, then you're talking to the wrong one. :heh:

 

Quoted for truthery, except for the bolded bit, it applies to everyone, not just wimmens :p

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i laughed at odders comment, but in all seriousness, its not the same for everyone! Some people just don't have this magical "x factor" or whatever you want to call it.

 

Its true. I've done a lot of things in my life. Things that often push women away.

 

The only person I could get to sit with me in school was my sister!

 

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I turned to religion and became a professional Buddhist.

 

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But it didn't work so I took up modelling.

 

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Again, I made no money, so I went into advertising.

 

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Little did I know I was promoting fake products. With three fails in a row, I turned to drinking.

 

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And that didn't turn out well either.

 

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In fact, it gave me the shits.

 

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My appearance suffered from my skewed views.

 

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And eventually hit a low point.

 

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But I dragged myself and started getting down, and people started standing back, putting their hands up and taking notice.

 

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And I was king again. It proves that for all the downs you have....at the very least, attractive women will allow themselves to be photographed with you.

 

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This is my favourite image. I wish to paint it, then use the painting as the cover for the deluxe edition of my debut album 'Obsessed Warrior Princess'. You could be in the video for the title track and also first single, too, if you wanted.

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