Charlie Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 I dunno what I need really...I need some sort of magical device that tells me when it is right to kiss a girl and when it isn't right. Speaking with my my experience behind me here ( ), just go for it, the worst she can do is pull away.
Excelle Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 I need guidance! I make some pretty shitty decisions in my life and I just need some help on doing the right thing and stuff. Sounds daft, but I make some pretty rubbish decisions. Either that, or I'm too indecisive. (hence the not kissing) I think you're worried too much about the not-kissing. If she does like you (and it seems she does), then she'll give you another opportunity. Something to look forward to!
Fierce_LiNk Posted April 23, 2007 Author Posted April 23, 2007 I think you're worried too much about the not-kissing. If she does like you (and it seems she does), then she'll give you another opportunity. Something to look forward to! You know, I've had some encounters with the female kind in the last few months, but this is the only one that is actually properly a date, and this is the only time where I've had the courage to do something about it after missing out the first time. We were going to go out tomorrow anyway, but I sorta said that we should make it a date, and she said ok. Ok, I feel slightly better about this now.
Shorty Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 Flink I can't believe you complain about girl troubles... ever. You blatantly have no trouble getting on with girls, are constantly talking about new girls you like and are seeing. Compared to the troubles people around here are having... I haven't had a gf for over a year and it's been well over a month since I had any kind of "experience" - and here you are, a total pimp.
Fierce_LiNk Posted April 23, 2007 Author Posted April 23, 2007 Flink I can't believe you complain about girl troubles... ever. You blatantly have no trouble getting on with girls, are constantly talking about new girls you like and are seeing. Compared to the troubles people around here are having... I haven't had a gf for over a year and it's been well over a month since I had any kind of "experience" - and here you are, a total pimp. Ahh, but you see dude, I've only ever had 2 girlfriends, and they're both the only two girls I have ever kissed. Everyone else, including my recent encounters, they've either been unattainable or I just haven't had the confidence to just go for things. The last few weeks, I've been out quite a lot, including with girls by myself, but it's not been on a date...just as a friend thing. Although, it feels more than that sometimes, but it isn't. Things just seem..strange, tbh. Like you say, I do have quite a lot of encounters. So, from the outset it doesn't seem that bad. But, to me, it's all about breaking down that barrier. I just can't seem to pluck up any courage.
jayseven Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 Well my advice would be just don't try to expect too much from it! You've had two serious girlfriends in, what, 20 years of life? There's no guarentee that every girl you kiss or have a date with will be dating potential. Just... see how it goes! I mean, I'm a firm believer in "if it's meant to be, it will!" and all that malarky. you have to remember that it was weeks, nay, months before you fully knew who your girlfriend was, and to show her who you were. Just go with the flow. YO! Enjoy it while it lasts - while you're young and not 45+. Because that would be scary.
Gentleben Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 just remember to always pull out and you will be fine.
AeroScap Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Ahh, but you see dude, I've only ever had 2 girlfriends, and they're both the only two girls I have ever kissed. Everyone else, including my recent encounters, they've either been unattainable or I just haven't had the confidence to just go for things. The last few weeks, I've been out quite a lot, including with girls by myself, but it's not been on a date...just as a friend thing. Although, it feels more than that sometimes, but it isn't. Things just seem..strange, tbh. Like you say, I do have quite a lot of encounters. So, from the outset it doesn't seem that bad. But, to me, it's all about breaking down that barrier. I just can't seem to pluck up any courage. ahh snap.... That sounds stupidly like me! Xd Like a punishment vodka shot , the less you think about it and it easier it gets!
My Buttons are Magic! Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 well.. when i had my first date with my boyfriend i had only met him once before :S..... i was almost crapping myself cause i was so nervous but we had talked on msn for about 4 months previous.. but still first date of my life it was - good luck with yours tho! rememeber to offer to pay for everything - goes down a treat!
Fierce_LiNk Posted April 24, 2007 Author Posted April 24, 2007 T-minus 45 minutes. Ahhhh, getting panicky now. I'm listening to Oasis to get me in the mood. It always gets me in a cheerful mood listening to WASSIS. You gotta roll with it You gotta take your time You gotta say what ya say Don't let anybody get in your way Cos its all too much For me to taaaaake.
Rummy Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Good luck dude, just stay relaxed and be your charming self. If the oppurtunity presents itself, go for the kiss, don't ask, don't hesitate, just go for it. I'm sure everything will go great!
ShadowV7 Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Last time I can say this,but good luck.Stay calm,be a gentlemen and tell us what happens! I wish you all the best tonight show her that when she's with you she has a Flinking good time!
Aimless Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Where did you decide upon for a location? If you're going to a restaurant, be sure not to cut off your own penis¹. People will stare. ¹Castrating other people is fine, obviously. Just remember to use the right knife if you're in a posh eatery.
Rummy Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Oh man, imagine if he just came back and posted in 3 days with a story of how he somehow cut off his penis. Worst date ever! Especially if you was gonna get some.
Fierce_LiNk Posted April 24, 2007 Author Posted April 24, 2007 Cheers for the wise words, dudes. Now, she's meeting me here because it's on the way to town. Hopefully she'll turn up, haha.... Later!
Fierce_LiNk Posted April 24, 2007 Author Posted April 24, 2007 She's gonna be a bit late, should be here by half past. No problem, means she's on the way!
Guest Jordan Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 *insert porno beat* Got your fake mustache and spanner ready?
Cube Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 She's gonna be a bit late, should be here by half past. No problem, means she's on the way! Enough time to finish of th N-Eu..... all right, I'll drop it
AeroScap Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 T-minus 45 minutes. Ahhhh, getting panicky now. I'm listening to Oasis to get me in the mood. It always gets me in a cheerful mood listening to WASSIS. You gotta roll with it You gotta take your time You gotta say what ya say Don't let anybody get in your way Cos its all too much For me to taaaaake. Lol wonder what the effect would be if he listened to some "system" or mozart.... Oh the hilarity!
nekunando Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 rememeber to offer to pay for everything - goes down a treat! ..actually paying would have went down even better There was no need to offer at all though, really All the best, Fierce!
Fierce_LiNk Posted April 24, 2007 Author Posted April 24, 2007 Ok, well that went pretty damn well! She arrived at mine, and I showed her around my place, and then we left to go to town. Went to Pablos, which is a place where they do pizza, pastas, lasagnas, etc. Had food, shared a desert and chatted for pretty much the entire time. There didn't feel like a shortage of things to talk about. After then, went to a bar across the road. We held hands whilst we walked, which was pretty nice. Got in there, chatted and drank, and things were going alright. Then, she said she had better had go to bed, as she had an early start tomorrow (as do I). So, we were walking outside, hand in hand, and I stopped her for a second, and kissed her on the cheek. Then, turned her to face me, kissed her again on the cheek, and then properly on the lips, and she kissed back. RESULT! We waited for a bus, but it didn't arrive. So, in the meantime, more kissing ensured, and we went back to my place and I called her a taxi. She's just left now, and I've been on the phone to a mate spilling the beans about the evening. So, yeah! I went for it, and it paid off. Fuck yeah! There will also be a second date, as well.
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