Coolness Bears Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 Lol! You're just plain awesome, who wouldn't want to hug you? Thanks Haggis! At least it gives you somewhere to put your arms! Haha! :awesome: True! Problem Solved. : peace: I always have a dilemna when it comes to people assuming I'm hetero. Like a few weeks ago my guitar teacher was like "You'll be able to play this to your girlfriends", and I could have either have just agreed (or whatever) or have said "Actually it would be boyfriends in my case". In the end a guy knocked on the door and we were interrupted, so I didn't get to say anything. Still, I don't like it when people assume. Some people think i'm gay because i don't openly give my opinions on women and the like but i'm not going to share that information openly with people i don't like. And so therefore they assume i like men. Which is why i have to be careful about men hugging me.
Raining_again Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 I always have a dilemna when it comes to people assuming I'm hetero. Like a few weeks ago my guitar teacher was like "You'll be able to play this to your girlfriends", and I could have either have just agreed (or whatever) or have said "Actually it would be boyfriends in my case". In the end a guy knocked on the door and we were interrupted, so I didn't get to say anything. Still, I don't like it when people assume. Yes. Assumptions are annoying ¬_¬ I don't really care about sexuality! I would think lover would be more appropriate
Jamba Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 I always have a dilemna when it comes to people assuming I'm hetero. Like a few weeks ago my guitar teacher was like "You'll be able to play this to your girlfriends", and I could have either have just agreed (or whatever) or have said "Actually it would be boyfriends in my case". In the end a guy knocked on the door and we were interrupted, so I didn't get to say anything. Still, I don't like it when people assume. Oh come on... the majority of people are still straight. Surely that means that they can assume that you are most likely to be straight. If he'd got pissy becuase you said you were gay then that would be bad but this isn't like he's judging you. Stop being so protective over it, it's not like he means anything by it. In fact what you've done is gone and fucked over what was actually quite a nice friendly gesture.
chairdriver Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 Oh come on... the majority of people are still straight. Surely that means that they can assume that you are most likely to be straight. If he'd got pissy becuase you said you were gay then that would be bad but this isn't like he's judging you. Stop being so protective over it, it's not like he means anything by it. In fact what you've done is gone and fucked over what was actually quite a nice friendly gesture. *shrugs shoulders*
Eenuh Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 I'm not.... I think i've said this before but i have almost a non-existant drive. (i think) I find the thought of sex very scary.... o____0 Though i find women attractive and would love to have a girlfriend. Also why do men keep hugging me? Awww, I'll hug you! *hugs* =P And whooo for people who share my feelings. X3
DomJcg Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 I heart Sex It's more, fun and awesome feelings than it is messy, (i can't understand that, if everything is in when it all goes down, the issue is...?) and i do get random patches of hornyness, but it's usually on a weekly basis...
nightwolf Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 What goes up must come down. eurgh dear lord *shudders*
Ellmeister Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 hehehe it's sex i'm allowed to metaphor it You sicken me. I'm with dom, sex is good. Not with dom though, hes rubbish.
DomJcg Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 You sicken me. I'm with dom, sex is good. Not with dom though, hes rubbish. But but...you said i was the...best... *cries* Sex wins everytime
Coolness Bears Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 Awww, I'll hug you! *hugs* =PAnd whooo for people who share my feelings. X3 THANKS EENUH!!! Your SO Awesome! *massive hugs*
Sheikah Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 Oh come on... the majority of people are still straight. Surely that means that they can assume that you are most likely to be straight. If he'd got pissy becuase you said you were gay then that would be bad but this isn't like he's judging you. Stop being so protective over it, it's not like he means anything by it. In fact what you've done is gone and fucked over what was actually quite a nice friendly gesture. I concur. Most people are straight, so it's not wrong for people to say that. Plus if he had said "girlfriend of boyfriend" to a straight guy, they would most likely take offense. Safe option he took really.
gaggle64 Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 I had alot of sex today. Isn't that fun? How fun? Was it with a clown?
Guest Jordan Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 How fun? Was it with a clown? 9 clowns and 2 court jesters.
Shotgun2k Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 I concur. Most people are straight, so it's not wrong for people to say that. Plus if he had said "girlfriend of boyfriend" to a straight guy, they would most likely take offense. Safe option he took really. I too can understand why the guitar teacher might have said it - and besides, he obviously thinks you're good looking enough to attract others :awesome: Speaking of the 'safe option' to avoid prejudice, a couple of weeks back I was put in a bit of a sticky situation. My black friend Felix was round, and I offered him a cup of tea. While this would normally be fine, I unfortunately forgot thatwe only have 2 mugs in the house: a plain white one, and a black one that reads "New Nation - Britain's Number 1 Black Newspaper". I made tea for both of us, and it was so difficult to decide which one to give him. I gave him the black mug in the end...giving him the white one would have just been silly. He noticed straight away, but was thankfully understanding as to my predicament and laughed about it.
Ashley Posted April 24, 2008 Posted April 24, 2008 I had alot of sex today. Isn't that fun? Romantic sex...nah. Anonymous sex, now thats where its at :p
Deathjam Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 I too can understand why the guitar teacher might have said it - and besides, he obviously thinks you're good looking enough to attract others :awesome: Speaking of the 'safe option' to avoid prejudice, a couple of weeks back I was put in a bit of a sticky situation. My black friend Felix was round, and I offered him a cup of tea. While this would normally be fine, I unfortunately forgot thatwe only have 2 mugs in the house: a plain white one, and a black one that reads "New Nation - Britain's Number 1 Black Newspaper". I made tea for both of us, and it was so difficult to decide which one to give him. I gave him the black mug in the end...giving him the white one would have just been silly. He noticed straight away, but was thankfully understanding as to my predicament and laughed about it. Lmao that's probably in a comedy somewhere. Anyways i have a little dilemna in that I have a friend who has recently broken up with her boyfriend (about a month ago). I found myself surprised when I felt happy about this as I have only known her for about 6 months but we really get along and enjoy each other's company. It's also surprising as physically, she isn't my type of girl but we just click mentally. Im not sure she feels the same way but I do get weird signals but I think she is just substituting me for the gap left by the absence of her ex. She even got into another relationship but quickly got out of it. We are supposed to be doing something today, just the two of us, even though I asked if we should invite our other housemates. She told me if she enters a relationship, she generally does so with the aim being to marry that person eventually as in her opinion, she isn't young, 27-29 (I always think she is younger). I am only 22 but am not the bed hopping type. But I am worried that if anything were to happen, A: it would ruin our friendship which I really cherish and B: I may get attracted to girls who are my type and cheat on her even though I am not like that. Ah what to do what to do.
Jamba Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 If you "click" and get along but are not physically attracted to her that much then I'd say that your nothing more than friends. On a subconscious level, you could liking her because you want her to be happy so you think going out with her would be good. But if you thought about it you'd just be going out with her for the sake of it. Or you could be (again this is subconscious) could be seeing it as an easy option because you haven't gone out with someone in a while.
Deathjam Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 If you "click" and get along but are not physically attracted to her that much then I'd say that your nothing more than friends. On a subconscious level, you could liking her because you want her to be happy so you think going out with her would be good. But if you thought about it you'd just be going out with her for the sake of it. Or you could be (again this is subconscious) could be seeing it as an easy option because you haven't gone out with someone in a while. Very good points on both parts. Im thinking its most likely the second. Think I will just play it safe and just be friends. Thanks for the advice
Jamba Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 It's such a shame isn't it? We all want to love someone and be in love but most of the time we find ourselves tricking ourselves into being in love. The amount of times that I have thought that I've been in love when I have just been infatuated is rediculous.
Deathjam Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 Yeah, been there done that. It's why i have so been trying to analyse this 'thing' properly and truly understand what the hell is going on before i make a fool of myself. Again
Esequiel Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 I had alot of sex today. Isn't that fun? Wish i could share your enthuiasm (sp??). My GF is due on 21/5 so thats like 3 1/2 weeks. All she wants to do is eat almond magnums and rainbow crystals. Masturbation gets boring after a month.... or 2 >.>
Deathjam Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 Wish i could share your enthuiasm (sp??). My GF is due on 21/5 so thats like 3 1/2 weeks. All she wants to do is eat almond magnums and rainbow crystals. Masturbation gets boring after a month.... or 2 >.> Did you order her or something?!
Guest Jordan Posted April 25, 2008 Posted April 25, 2008 Hahahah Best interpritation ever. As for Ash, theres nothing like being in love and having sex. I mean, the love is what makes it the best thing. Man i sound sad.
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