demonmike04 Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Sorry for the title, but im just so angry now. I've never had any one close to me die, and today it happend, unexpected as well. Click here I just cant believe he died like this. He was really popular in my town, a close friend of mine for more than 5 years, and its gone in an instant. Just came in that the driver drove into a fucking tree. Going too fucking fast hun. Please lock if there is no room for discussion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supergrunch Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 I'm really sorry to hear that... do you know the driver? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoogleViper Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 I'm so sorry to hear it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Bananagrabber Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 There's nothing worse that losing a friend I'm so sorry man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demonmike04 Posted January 26, 2007 Author Share Posted January 26, 2007 I'm really sorry to hear that... do you know the driver? I know all of the people in the car.. Their all my mates, I just cant believe something like this has happend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Really sorry to hear that, things like this are always bad to hear, and even more so if you know the people involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THE ganondorflol Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 I lost a friend once, and he still is a great guy in my heart. I do not care if you think I am soft, it is just that it really is a terrible feeling. Do you believe in Heaven? I am sure he is there, having a great time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stocka Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 That's awful. You have my sympathy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caris Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Ah man im so sorry to hear that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dyson Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 I can't imagine what it'd be like losing a friend all of a sudden. I'm sorry to hear this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tellyn Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Sorry to hear that demonmike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Stefkov Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Damn thats bad news. I thought this was the story of the 3 white guys taking a ab driver out and beating him to death. But there's even more news of people dying. Sorry to hear this happen to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rummy Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 A proper shitty thing to hear, sorry to hear you lost a friend, it's a terrible thing to happen to anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shorty Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Sorry to hear this man I haven't lost a friend but at college someone close to some of my friends was killed in a tragic accident, it really affects everyone and hits home hard. I saw the effect on other people and we just think we're immune sometimes, that these things won't happen to us. Sadly its rare to get through life without such an experience, and your friend was way too young to go. I hope you pull through - and if you believe in a better place, maybe you'll meet up again one day. Regarding locking this: of course not - stays as far as I'm concerned. Commiserations again to you and your mates, and your friend's family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 I'm shite in situations like this so i will just give you a hug. *Big hug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
conzer16 Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Hey mike, sorry to read that, hope you're all bearing up well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EchoDesiato Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Sorry to hear that man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Been Insane Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Sorry for your loss dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Odwin Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 demonmike, I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. As time passes it will probably hurt less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demonmike04 Posted January 26, 2007 Author Share Posted January 26, 2007 demonmike, I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. As time passes it will probably hurt less. Yeah, it was just the worst possible moment too as his band received news they had a huge chance of being able to play at the Great Albert Hall for this variety show. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jordan Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Man, thats pretty bad. Sorry about your huge loss Mike. The whole forum is behind you at this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goron_3 Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 That is terrible We're all here for you mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oxigen_Waste Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Im presuming you learnt this from personal experience? Heh, dont worry I saw the side you were implementing with this. Comic relief. Nothing is better than a bit of humour at these times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cube Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Luckily, I don't know the feeling myself, but I know what it's like (if thats make sence), I know a thing like that is terrible. The only death I've had to put up with since I was "old enough to understand" was a cat, which was upsetting. But from that, I know that denial is a bad idea (from the sounds of, you've acknowledged it, which is "good"). Also, I was part of an anti-bully (and general support) group in school, and I learnt a lot when a kid from the school was involved in an accident (car was going speed limit, skidded on a turning that was very icy - the police should of closed it after a previous accident - and hit a bunch of cylcists, the kid being one of them). The only piece of advice I can give you is this: No matter how angry you are at the driver, do not blame her for anything, It may make you feel better, but just don't say anything to her about that it's "her fault" (even if it is her fault). She will feel a lot worse than you about the tragic death, and she'll have the traumatic memory of the car crash on top of that. Do not make her feel worse. Comic relief. Nothing is better than a bit of humour at these times. While you are right about that, you're going about it the wrong way. Talking to him (in person) about great and funny memories is whats good - joking about what happened is not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaijin von Snikbah Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 Im sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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