Don't get many family gatherings myself, well not on my Dad's side of the family. On my Mothers side, always seeing my Aunt and Uncle. Mainly because they live right up the road from me. So no wonder really.
Last big gathering we had for both sides of the family, was a funeral on both sides. Not the best occasions to meet, but it was the last time i saw many people. Ain't seen them since to be honest.