Posted September 6, 2013 Props on having the balls to ask. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2013 It was like watching a car crash just about to happen, and not being able to stop it. I'm so stoopid lol Seriously though, this guy is beyond words beautiful. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2013 I think it was really great you asked though Raining - not many people would have had the balls as mentioned above, plus it sounds like you did it in a dignified way so you have nothing to feel stupid about at all. Re the pic - he clearly works hard, and I get why people would perv! I've never been into muscle guys personally. Which I think is quite strange. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2013 Stoopid? No way! You had the guts to ask him out, which is more than you can say about most people these days. He also declined politely, which I also find speaks volumes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2013 Yeah he was kind Now i have to see his face in the gym and not be a scared weirdo lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2013 (edited) @raining Welcome to the guy world where you get turned down time after time. Anyway, good job for asking, at least you know now and can move on. Edited September 6, 2013 by Ville Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 Yeah you totally do.... I have been rejected more than once lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 ...and Dan rejected me when we first met! I think he even talked about it on here! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 there's hope for me yet then XD Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 He's in very good shape. And everybody loves a public toilet portrait. "Hey, man. Will you come with me to the toilet?" "What? No." "I need you to come with me." "Why?" "Here's a camera, I want you to take some photos of me in the toilet." "..." Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 but of course. they have the best lighting in toilets Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 I don't really think it counts as rejection if the guy is seeing someone else though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 I don't really think it counts as rejection if the guy is seeing someone else though. Tbh it's pretty disrespectful to turn down someone who asks you out. I think he's definitely a prick. He might have made her sad! (on srs note tho props for making the effort Raining) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 ...and Dan rejected me when we first met! I think he even talked about it on here! Oh man, I don't remember that! How come he said no? (if its not too much of a personal question). Ah R_A you have more balls than me lady! You should be proud. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 No it's fine, I quite like telling the story! He found me through OkCupid and we met up at the local pub after sending a few messages. It was a bit embarrassing though as his older brother was there, so after a couple of drinks he came back to mine (he was living with parents at the time) to watch Rome. Nothing happened though, except he was sat right next to me. When he left around 2am, he hung around the entrance door for about 20 minutes while we chatted, then he left. So the next night he came round to mine and we watched Rome again, hung by my door then left. Repeat the same thing a few more nights, except we ended up watching it on my bed in my room. Anyway, after about a week of doing this I got fed up, so at the end of the night by the door I asked him (in a very sort of nice way) if he wanted to, you know, kiss or something. To which he replied 'NO, sorry', walked out the door and left. Anyway, couldn't believe it. I'd never been turned down before, and I REALLY fancied him, and why would he text me constantly and come round to mine Every night? He sent me a text to apologise and said he wasn't into me and could we just be friends. Obviously I wasn't impressed, so I ignored him for a week, until he text me asking if we could meet up. So he came round to mine and he'd hardly stepped through the door when he walked right up to me and... Well you can guess what happened next :-p. He told me that at the time he came on here talking about how he'd met this girl (me), but wasn't sure he liked her that much. The post is probably still on here somewhere. There's also the story of how we became boyfriend and girlfriend officially, and how he told me he loved me, but I guess that's for another time (when someone gets bored enough to ask). Sorry for any mistakes- I've written this on my phone! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 So he came round to mine and he'd hardly stepped through the door when he walked right up to me and... Well you can guess what happened next :-p. Did you watch moar Rome? ... Ohhhhh! There's also the story of how we became boyfriend and girlfriend officially, and how he told me he loved me, but I guess that's for another time (when someone gets bored enough to ask). ... ... ... What's the story about you two becoming boyfriend and girlfriend officially and how he told you he loved you? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 Aww, @Dan you dickhead :P That's really cool, I love hearing these sorts of things. So: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 No it's fine, I quite like telling the story! He found me through OkCupid and we met up at the local pub after sending a few messages. It was a bit embarrassing though as his older brother was there, so after a couple of drinks he came back to mine (he was living with parents at the time) to watch Rome. Nothing happened though, except he was sat right next to me. When he left around 2am, he hung around the entrance door for about 20 minutes while we chatted, then he left. So the next night he came round to mine and we watched Rome again, hung by my door then left. Repeat the same thing a few more nights, except we ended up watching it on my bed in my room. Anyway, after about a week of doing this I got fed up, so at the end of the night by the door I asked him (in a very sort of nice way) if he wanted to, you know, kiss or something. To which he replied 'NO, sorry', walked out the door and left. I imagine he walked away like this: Aww, @Dan you dickhead :P That's really cool, I love hearing these sorts of things. So: Fine. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 hahahaha omg dan you are meaaaaaan Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 (edited) @Ashley, he walks like that all the time Dan tells me that when he left my house in the morning, it pretty much went like this: He's on a stag do in Wales this weekend, but I'll let him know how you feel when he gets back :P. I'll do the girlfriend/ boyfriend one first. I don't think it's as good as the first story though! We'd been seeing each other (read into that what you will) pretty much every day for 2 months and nothing in the slightest had been brought up about what we were doing. I wanted to say something, but didn't due to what had happened when we first met. It was pretty much all I was thinking about at the time though. I'd slept over at his house midweek, and we were coming back to mine to pick something up. As we came to the outside of my house I noticed that the gate door thing that went down the side of the house was mysteriously open. So I went in to check my Vespa was still there... It wasn't. Sudden panic and freak out ensued. I rushed inside to ask if my housemates knew where it was, they just looked confused, I ran outside to ask the neighbours, they just looked shifty. So I ran back inside to phone the police. The policeman told me to give an overview as to what I'd done up to the incident and where I'd been. Dan was out of the room at the time, so to stop myself from sounding like a hussy I said I was at my boyfriend's house (compared to, I was at this guy's I've sort of been seeing place). After the police had been and left and I'd phoned my parents Dan came back in and said to me. '"So you were at your boyfriend's last night were you?". I then went bright red and tried to explain how I didn't want to sound dodgy to the police, Then he replied with... "well I guess we better stick with that now that you've got a police report to confirm it." EDIT: I found the thread: http://www.n-europe.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29900 Edited September 7, 2013 by Emma Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 awwwww that is sooooo cute :3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 @Ashley, he walks like that all the time Dan tells me that when he left my house in the morning, it pretty much went like this: He's on a stag do in Wales this weekend, but I'll let him know how you feel when he gets back :P. I'll do the girlfriend/ boyfriend one first. I don't think it's as good as the first story though! We'd been seeing each other (read into that what you will) pretty much every day for 2 months and nothing in the slightest had been brought up about what we were doing. I wanted to say something, but didn't due to what had happened when we first met. It was pretty much all I was thinking about at the time though. I'd slept over at his house midweek, and we were coming back to mine to pick something up. As we came to the outside of my house I noticed that the gate door thing that went down the side of the house was mysteriously open. So I went in to check my Vespa was still there... It wasn't. Sudden panic and freak out ensued. I rushed inside to ask if my housemates knew where it was, they just looked confused, I ran outside to ask the neighbours, they just looked shifty. So I ran back inside to phone the police. The policeman told me to give an overview as to what I'd done up to the incident and where I'd been. Dan was out of the room at the time, so to stop myself from sounding like a hussy I said I was at my boyfriend's house (compared to, I was at this guy's I've sort of been seeing place). After the police had been and left and I'd phoned my parents Dan came back in and said to me. '"So you were at your boyfriend's last night were you?". I then went bright red and tried to explain how I didn't want to sound dodgy to the police, Then he replied with... "well I guess we better stick with that now that you've got a police report to confirm it." That's brilliant! Love it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7, 2013 @Emma, that's bullshit, I know Dan and he ain't that suave. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
