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Goron_3 Newbie

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What do kids your age do for fun? (/old man)

 

Just ask her if she wants to go to a gig, for a meal, bowling, cinema whatever. Ask her over social media or via text, that way you can take time formulating your words, and it's much less nerve wracking than face to face.

 

I know it seems hard to do, but what you need to tell yourself is that it's always better to ask than not. If she says yes then great, if not then at least you know, and don't spend your evening worrying about if she likes you and masturbating over her profile picture (well you might keep up the last one, but won't hate yourself as much afterwards).

 

 

 

You're too new to remember Offer? You've missed out.

 

N.B. you would have hated him.

 

For someone that gets dating advice off of me and my girlfriend, you're advice isn't half bad ;)

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Agent Gibbs Newbie

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I don't think we were that brute.

 

He should try roman around other forums and see how mean they can be.

 

You mock now, but he'll be fiddling while we all burn.

 

Be forward with her, Julius, seize her.

 

:heh: This is why i love this place

 

You people are strange. I give up.

 

just kidding

 

You'll fit in just fine

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He's 17 though, so it'd probably be for a cheeky Nandos rather than dinner (I believe).

You only have a cheeky Nandos when it's a lads night out, haha.

 

He could ask her to come over for Teletubbies and chill?

Never Teletubbies! Tweenies is where it's at!

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Well I fought like this like an idiot and now no way back, the sad thing is if I gave her space she would definitely have come back. I haven't sent a nasty message but shes annoyed with me quite a bit. Then again if I had done this to someone I wouldn't expect space.

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Magnus Newbie

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I met up with a really cute guy today. We get on well but I'm not sure if he's into anything more than a friend. We always have a laugh and stuff but I need to find a way of seeing whether there's anything more than friendship.

I wish you and Goron would just do it already. I can't take all this sexual tension. :cry:

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Well I fought like this like an idiot and now no way back, the sad thing is if I gave her space she would definitely have come back. I haven't sent a nasty message but shes annoyed with me quite a bit. Then again if I had done this to someone I wouldn't expect space.

 

Oh Stu I'm sorry to hear that. It's amazing the things we learn in hindsight. Best of luck to you both.

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I met up with a really cute guy today. We get on well but I'm not sure if he's into anything more than a friend. We always have a laugh and stuff but I need to find a way of seeing whether there's anything more than friendship.

 

:hug:

 

Exhausting weekend but I'm pretty wired at the moment....

 

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Shorty Apprentice

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I am in such a weird place. This Netflix and chill stuff is normal for some people I guess, but for me it's strange.

 

My relationships in the past have been in at the deep end from the start. In those instances, was seriously invested from the first moment that things were happening and the feeling was reciprocated. So... my feelings made sense, and I knew how I was meant to act in between getting together.

 

But... when you're not really "dating", I'm not even sure the right way to say "bye" :blank: This is the ultimate taking it slowly fling. We have a really great time, and then don't really contact each other at all for a week, and then it's just to arrange getting together. I can't gauge her interest in me any further, I second guess anything that seems like a dropped hint.

 

She is ace. Really intelligent, very funny, has this outpour of enthusiasm for various subjects that I find incredibly attractive.

 

Edit: Removed debbie-downer ending :heh: I'd rather say that I'm generally having an awesome time when I see her, and I'm in a much better place for having done this, no matter where it goes.

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stuwii Newbie

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I've learnt that you need to talk about your problems, not hide them, and that I need to stand up for myself and not take so much shit from someone. Frankly it was disgusting and she said so herself at the end, I think she knew I would never give up and would just have took it and took it and never stopped. It is her loss, the messages were dumb but shell wake up one day and think, damn that was a mistake.

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Magnus Newbie

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But... when you're not really "dating", I'm not even sure the right way to say "bye" :blank: This is the ultimate taking it slowly fling. We have a really great time, and then don't really contact each other at all for a week, and then it's just to arrange getting together. I can't gauge her interest in me any further, I second guess anything that seems like a dropped hint.

Not having any contact at all during the week seems way too casual to me. You should remind her that neither of you is getting any younger and that her biological clock is ticking.

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Magnus Newbie

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Oh yeah, everyone loves that reminder.

 

Actually, she's five years younger than me so even if you were serious, I can't play that card :p

"So I found a gray hair in the shower last weekend and I know it's not mine...

 

Maybe we should be exclusive?"

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Shorty Apprentice

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I know you're having a joke but I literally don't even know how to approach things like exclusivity. Like I said, my previous relationships have been serious from the get-go, there was no questions. Everything I know about casual relationships I learned from sitcoms.

 

Well, I do know what I'll do. I'll just leave things exactly as they are until she says something or finishes it :p

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Open communication is key. Without it then you're just going to end up over-thinking/not knowing etc. and it'll lead to problems as a result.

 

If open communication pushes that person away then they're not right for you. The person that is right will listen and communicate back in turn.

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