Ellmeister Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 the worst is when you make it obvious and get completely rejected Good fun. Naaht.
Raining_again Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 the worst is when you make it obvious and get completely rejected Good fun. Naaht. Been there done that
Razz Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 That's the point. I actually want some crap. I'm sick of wanting people, instead of having people. I'd prefer crap to, well, nothing. /emo :p Yea, you are right. I've just not felt like this is a loooooong while, so it's getting me down a little, that's all. I shall get over it. I know how you feel with this as well actually. It gets really boring seeing other people with people, and you're just kinda outside looking in. Then I think, what's the point right now? Because uni's right around the corner.
James Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I am rather shocked....or rather...well yeah I am. Basically last night I was having a conversation with someone, and they were like blah blah spit roasting. And I was like "Oh, thats when a woman is cummed on by usually multiple males" and then they copy and pasted the urban dictionary definition of a threesome, two males, one female, doggy and blow job at same time. I was kind of stunned to be honest. I'm not entirely certain how my definition of it came about. Well I think I know. I think I just heard the phrase and somehow got it misintepreted, and also mixed with my assumption. Like I thought....well....a pig roast spit roast, is an entire animal rolling around and roasting in its own juices, so like....a piece of meat (a woman)* being ejaculated on by multiple people (juices) and like....yeah. *Most offensive thing I've ever said? I think it's called a spit roast because of the rods that go through the pig, nothing to do with what you quite described
Slaggis Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I know how you feel with this as well actually. It gets really boring seeing other people with people, and you're just kinda outside looking in. Then I think, what's the point right now? Because uni's right around the corner. That's exactly it. I think, well what's the point in making an effort if it's all going to be for nothing when it ends when everyone parts their separate ways to Uni. But then again, I'm not really looking for a relationship at all, I can't be arsed with all the crap, at least whilst I'm still at college. A little bit of no strings fun would be nice, though. :p
Razz Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 That's exactly it. I think, well what's the point in making an effort if it's all going to be for nothing when it ends when everyone parts their separate ways to Uni. But then again, I'm not really looking for a relationship at all, I can't be arsed with all the crap, at least whilst I'm still at college. A little bit of no strings fun would be nice, though. :p Amen to that!
Paj! Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 A little bit of no strings fun would be nice, though. :p Ask and ye shall receive.
chairdriver Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Ask and ye shall receive. Lol. Casual sex ftw.
Slaggis Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 Ask and ye shall receive. Haha! I love it. But I'll pass. I might be desperate, but I think I have limits. Well.....No....Yes. I have limits. I was talking about being casual to some mates the other day. Most were like "Yeah, you can't really just do stuff casually, you would be a bit of a slag." I was stunned. You only live once, why wait for that perfect relationship when you can have fun before hand?
rokhed00 Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 I think it's called a spit roast because of the rods that go through the pig, nothing to do with what you quite described Already sorted darling.
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Haha! I love it. But I'll pass. I might be desperate, but I think I have limits. Well.....No....Yes. I have limits. I was talking about being casual to some mates the other day. Most were like "Yeah, you can't really just do stuff casually, you would be a bit of a slag." I was stunned. You only live once, why wait for that perfect relationship when you can have fun before hand? I agree. I see nothing wrong with casual sex if both parties know it's casual. If one part reads more into, though, then it gets troublesome.
Jav_NE Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Never been one for casual sex. It's meaningless with too many risks. Plus, when you do get a girlfriend, you've surely got that nagging guilt hanging over you. The question always comes up: "how many partners have you been with" and i just couldnt lie. Even if i did, it would hang over me. No-one wants to be with the village bicycle afterall.
Ashley Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Never been one for casual sex. It's meaningless with too many risks. Plus, when you do get a girlfriend, you've surely got that nagging guilt hanging over you. The question always comes up: "how many partners have you been with" and i just couldnt lie. Even if i did, it would hang over me. No-one wants to be with the village bicycle afterall. I disagree. I see the advantages rather than disadvantages. And the (granted brief) relationships I've had I've never felt guilty. Why should I apologise for living my life (granted its not like im in the hundreds).
Ellmeister Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 I so could have had casual sex less than a little while ago, but I decided to do the good thing and get back with the ex. Though not officially, so I guess its just classified as casual exclusive sex. Has anyone ever thought of someone else during sex? I haven't but I saw a tv show (may have been 2 and a half men :p) where someone thought of someone else and I just wondered.
Slaggis Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 I disagree. I see the advantages rather than disadvantages. And the (granted brief) relationships I've had I've never felt guilty. Why should I apologise for living my life (granted its not like im in the hundreds). Totally agree. Why should it matter how many people you've slept with? As long as you are faithful to the person you are having a relationship with at the present time, then why on earth should it matter? It's not like someones going to dump you after you have slept with more people than them, is it? Afterall, it's just sex.
Ashley Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 I so could have had casual sex less than a little while ago, but I decided to do the good thing and get back with the ex. Though not officially, so I guess its just classified as casual exclusive sex. Has anyone ever thought of someone else during sex? I haven't but I saw a tv show (may have been 2 and a half men :p) where someone thought of someone else and I just wondered. Yes. Often people I'd rather be with but beggers can't be choosers :p
Chris the great Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 casual sex is fine, if your consenting adults, but i dont think id like to be with a girl whod had to many partners, call me old fashioned or what ever, but i like the idea of sex being somthing special between two people, as opposed to just somthing you do when drunk.
Platty Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Yeah I agree, casual sex is fine. Was seeing this girl once and we both agreed we didnt want a relationship just sex, which was fine and it worked well till after about 3 months she got a bit too attached, So I stopped it all.
nightwolf Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 The only issue I have with casual sex is that I'd ask the person to be tested. I get worried anyway, so it'd stress me out if they didn't decide to do that, otherwise, it's perfectly acceptable for somebody to sleep with lots of people!
dazzybee Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 The only issue I have with casual sex is that I'd ask the person to be tested. I get worried anyway, so it'd stress me out if they didn't decide to do that, otherwise, it's perfectly acceptable for somebody to sleep with lots of people! Good luck with that Personally I'm not a big fan of it. If I'm going to be far too honest for saying on a faceless site, I'm not that sexual anyway; I have a very healthy sexual life, I enjoy it, but I've never been that bothered about it (would rather a blowjob anyday :P) and having sex with someone I don't really know has NEVER brought me any pleasure, however hot they were! Also, if I know a girl has slept around a bit with a lot of randoms, it's a massive turn off for me.
nightwolf Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Good luck with that Personally I'm not a big fan of it. If I'm going to be far too honest for saying on a faceless site, I'm not that sexual anyway; I have a very healthy sexual life, I enjoy it, but I've never been that bothered about it (would rather a blowjob anyday :P) and having sex with someone I don't really know has NEVER brought me any pleasure, however hot they were! Also, if I know a girl has slept around a bit with a lot of randoms, it's a massive turn off for me. Well if somebody can't be arsed to take a test not only for themselves and the person they are with, then who cares about them.
Ashley Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Well if somebody can't be arsed to take a test not only for themselves and the person they are with, then who cares about them. Im all for testing (I keep telling my little brother he needs to get fully tested as I've met the skanks he knows) but come on. Waiting two weeks, it takes all the casualness out of it :p
nightwolf Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 Im all for testing (I keep telling my little brother he needs to get fully tested as I've met the skanks he knows) but come on. Waiting two weeks, it takes all the casualness out of it :p Oh no, I was commenting if somebody had casual sex regularly and then came into a relationship with me , having casual sex isn't for me for the above reason
Ashley Posted November 25, 2008 Posted November 25, 2008 The above reason being you have the clap...? :p
nightwolf Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 The above reason being you have the clap...? :p >_> I've mentioned it before, I can't use condoms, so I would have to use the pill and frankly, I don't fucking trust most people to do that.
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