The Bard Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 It was a joke brah... Oh wait...I will not ruin this moment.
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 It was a joke brah... Oh wait...I will not ruin this moment. I know, I know.
The Bard Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Bail out Bail out Bail out. Hehe, sorry though dude, genuinely, feel free to poke fun whenever you want at my various neuroses.
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Bail out Bail out Bail out. Hehe, sorry though dude, genuinely, feel free to poke fun whenever you want at my various neuroses. Well, let's just say I don't always agree with your ramblings. I might try to make a comeback once in a while - though I will likely succumb to your rhetorical superiority. :p
The Bard Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Well now. I'm practically blushing. Ego successfully stroked
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 Well, then, consider that my good deed for the day.
flameboy Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 urgh, i decided to a dating website, figured at least I could go out on few dates maybe and it would get me out of the house and out of my depressed bored mood. Lo and behold the girl I just declared my love for is signed up for it and it even bloody gave her as one of my matches! i've blocked her account so she won't see me but still fucking hell...
flameboy Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Yowza that must have sucked. yep i've been like a love sick puppy over the last week or so since she told me she didn't feel the same and turns out she's been on the look out all along...sigh
Daft Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 A dating website? What's wrong with the old fashioned way? It's not like you're past it.
flameboy Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 A dating website? What's wrong with the old fashioned way? It's not like you're past it. 25 mate getting on I just thought was an easy way to get out there on dates rather than the usual going out getting blind drunk with mates.
ReZourceman Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 My mate signed upto Match and now he's engaged. And she's American! And hot! She's just....extremely power hungry.
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 Well, it certainly can't hurt. I can relate very much to your situation, so I wish you the best of luck, flamester.
Goafer Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 My mate signed upto Match and now he's engaged. And she's American! And hot! She's just....extremely power hungry. And she doesn't mind having her picture taken next to a metal cock. She's a keeper.
SPAMBOT4000 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 (edited) Aw flamester, sorry about the dating website thing... that sucks. I'm also on a dating site (don't judge me, I am just horrendous at starting conversations with random women in RL). I got messaged by this really hot girl on there and we've been chatting back and forth through text message almost constantly for about 2 weeks now. She's so lovely, we have so many similar interests and get on really well... I really do like her so far. I think she might like me, even after we exchanged facebooks, where there are pictures that I've not been able to carefully moderate. Now, she randomly invited me to the NYE party she's going to (even though she lives around 160 miles away) and... me being a sad fucker who doesn't know many people down here in Cornwall, has taken her up on the offer. Now, in retrospect, I'm worried as hell that she's just invited me out of politeness and I'm being a complete freak by going. Maybe she feels like she can't back out now? I did talk to her about it and she said she really wanted me to go still even if we are being a little crazy and that she was nervous too... Her friends though as well... I'm sure they're going to wonder who this twat is that's crashing their moderately intimate (20 peeps?) NYE party. Basically I'm nervous as hell as I'm not exactly the most sociable person around new people (I get very nervous and self conscious) and am wondering if I should bother going at all or just stay down here with a couple of friends. I also seem to have just realised that we've only been talking for TWO WEEKS and I'm travelling 160 miles out of my way to see her?! Kinda pathetic? Edited December 30, 2009 by SPAMBOT4000
Jav_NE Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Aw flamester, sorry about the dating website thing... that sucks. I'm also on a dating site (don't judge me, I am just horrendous at starting conversations with random women in RL). I got messaged by this really hot girl on there and we've been chatting back and forth through text message almost constantly for about 2 weeks now. She's so lovely, we have so many similar interests and get on really well... I really do like her so far. I think she might like me, even after we exchanged facebooks, where there are pictures that I've not been able to carefully moderate. Now, she randomly invited me to the NYE party she's going to (even though she lives around 160 miles away) and... me being a sad fucker who doesn't know many people down here in Cornwall, has taken her up on the offer. Now, in retrospect, I'm worried as hell that she's just invited me out of politeness and I'm being a complete freak by going. Maybe she feels like she can't back out now? I did talk to her about it and she said she really wanted me to go still even if we are being a little crazy and that she was nervous too... Her friends though as well... I'm sure they're going to wonder who this twat is that's crashing their moderately intimate (20 peeps?) NYE party. Basically I'm nervous as hell as I'm not exactly the most sociable person around new people (I get very nervous and self conscious) and am wondering if I should bother going at all or just stay down here with a couple of friends. I also seem to have just realised that we've only been talking for TWO WEEKS and I'm travelling 160 miles out of my way to see her?! Kinda pathetic? Don't go. It is too forward on your behalf. Besides, if you dont go, she will want to see you even more another time. Just make sure you have a valid excuse so she doesn't think its because you are afraid or whatever. Something like your friends threw an impromtu get together. You really wanted to go and see her but you felt obliged to stay. You dont want to meet her around so many people. She wont mean to, but she will abandon you at times and you will feel very awkward. You would have to be pretty sociable to survive!!! See her another time, there's a whole new year waiting
flameboy Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Don't go. It is too forward on your behalf. Besides, if you dont go, she will want to see you even more another time. Just make sure you have a valid excuse so she doesn't think its because you are afraid or whatever. Something like your friends threw an impromtu get together. You really wanted to go and see her but you felt obliged to stay. You dont want to meet her around so many people. She wont mean to, but she will abandon you at times and you will feel very awkward. You would have to be pretty sociable to survive!!! See her another time, there's a whole new year waiting Yeah what he said! In other news, perhaps I don't need the dating site (although I am to speaking with a girl on there who is quite hot) cos I pulled last night! Oh yeah flamey's still got it! Girl I used to work with years back has come back up from London so we met up with her and it ended up just her and me in a club dancing and then she just kissed me! I was pretty amazed cos she is really hot! She was gonna come back to mine with me but the fact I live with my parents is kinda a put off and she said she didn't wanna have to go back to her parents (where shes staying for now) in the morning all skanky. So she said she'd come visit again in the future and perhaps we could do something then...So yeah thats kinda good...
Goron_3 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Yeah what he said! In other news, perhaps I don't need the dating site (although I am to speaking with a girl on there who is quite hot) cos I pulled last night! Oh yeah flamey's still got it! Girl I used to work with years back has come back up from London so we met up with her and it ended up just her and me in a club dancing and then she just kissed me! I was pretty amazed cos she is really hot! She was gonna come back to mine with me but the fact I live with my parents is kinda a put off and she said she didn't wanna have to go back to her parents (where shes staying for now) in the morning all skanky. So she said she'd come visit again in the future and perhaps we could do something then...So yeah thats kinda good... In the words of one of the rappers from Public Enemy....Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh boy! Shame nothing more could happen but hopefully next time you see you can erm, i dunno, get more hands on...
jayseven Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 SPAMBOT: I've been contemplating using a dating site myself for a while... I know some people who have in teh past, and mostly to no avail - but good friends were made and, in one case, a relationship was found with the best friend of the date... if that makes sense? Before reading Jav's post I was thinking "yeah mate, do it! Who knows what'll happen..." But I think he makes a lot of sense. The risk is massive... but it is up to you
The Lillster Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 So basicly this is the N-E secret dating and advice thread? :p I'm like other people on here, who say they don't like/ fell nervous about talking to strangers. The weird thing with me though, even if I'm around people I know in a group, I still feel sociably awkward. In a 1:1 conversation I'm fine.
Wesley Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 I don't understand people turning to dating websites. If you're not having much luck with the ladies, then just try it out with some of the lads. No harm.
SPAMBOT4000 Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Haha thanks peeps. Think I'm still gonna go despite my extreme ph33r. Hopefully a couple of drinks will loosen me up a bit.
flameboy Posted December 30, 2009 Posted December 30, 2009 Haha thanks peeps. Think I'm still gonna go despite my extreme ph33r. Hopefully a couple of drinks will loosen me up a bit. Well good luck it would go really well...Just remember she isn't gonna be by your side all the time so be chatty to other people and get socialising last thing you want is to be some loner sat on your own! Where you staying?
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