gARYgREATIE* Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 haha, it's not like I can't have sex dan that's what she said Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 With good reason too, the whole concept of it is just really horrible.It must be really sad to have to have sex just for the sake of having sex. Call me old fashioned but I could never do that, I need to get to know someone, and like them, before I get in to bed with them. Well I don't really like people full stop, nor wish to get to know them. Its not like I sleep with someone I haven't even spoke to, there is a bit of conversation and get to know you stuff beforehand. If I waited for someone who I really liked as a person I'd still be a virgin :p And I don't feel saddened by it. Its a goal. I meet it. I feel...accomplished. But each their own. I don't understand sex with emotions. Maybe im just backward :p If it works for you ashley then that's fine, just use common sense ^_^ Common sense indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jav_NE Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Oh Ashley, making love is so much better than 'emotionless sex'. Arrousal is mainly mental, which means if your heart is truly in it and you're that excited and in love with somebody the exerience a million times better. Of course, you're mentally excited by the prospect of sleeping with new people so that gets you off, but i dont think it can reach the same levels of passion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Oh Ashley, making love is so much better than 'emotionless sex'. Arrousal is mainly mental, which means if your heart is truly in it and you're that excited and in love with somebody the exerience a million times better. Of course, you're mentally excited by the prospect of sleeping with new people so that gets you off, but i dont think it can reach the same levels of passion. Passion? Meh. As you say, you need to be in love and that ain't going to happen soon. Maybe one day I shall experience it and it shall be glorious but for now I have no benchmark to measure it against so im pleased with what im doing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CooInTheZoo Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 I'm bringing a potential boyfriend along to my birthday shindigs tomorrow. Wise? EDIT: Oh, and Ashley- For you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan_Dare Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 does this shindig involve booze? if so, yes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 I'm bringing a potential boyfriend along to my birthday shindigs tomorrow. Wise? Expand on birthday shindigs, where? when? and who with? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CooInTheZoo Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Haha of course! I'm just worried all my mates + embarrassing stories + too much booze = cold shoulder? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 I'm bringing a potential boyfriend along to my birthday shindigs tomorrow. Wise? EDIT: Oh, and Ashley- For you! Thanks, but im not that desperate :p Haha of course! I'm just worried all my mates + embarrassing stories + too much booze = cold shoulder? Tricky sitch really. If you do the above could happen, if you don't they may not be too impressed. Maybe just pre-warn him. Eventually he's going to meet your friends anyway and you can't stop your friends telling embarassing stories. And if you're like me booze will get you more in the mood anyway so you won't cold shoulder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 lol, i don't see problem in maintaining a love in the chest, as long as it isn't told. I just told that because by the way you talk, you make me think that you are easily recognized seeing her and having the Heart at 10000000 KM per hour, know what i mean? As Aimless said, the problem in maintaining a love in the chest is that it can freakin' hurt. And though I understand what you say (it's not that obvious, I think), I still don't get how that explains what you mean in your previous posts about not talking to her and "wasting a friendship". Again, I appreciate the advice, but really, I was just letting out some steam. I'll find out myself what to do about the situation. You could give me all the advice in the world, but when it comes to love, you just gotta do what you feel is right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rokhed00 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 As Aimless said, the problem in maintaining a love in the chest is that it can freakin' hurt. Love hurts, best get used to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gizmo Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Love hurts! But sometimes its a good hurt And it feels like I'm aliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eenuh Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Love hurts, even when it's gone. Makes me think that maybe it would've been better to never have experienced that love in the first place. It gave me more pain than anything else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan_Dare Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Nonsense Eenuh Hurts like hell but it's worth feeling. S'what you take for trying to make a mark on the world ay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 How does being in a relationship make a mark on the world...? (unless you're talking about having kids) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan_Dare Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 I just mean that you leave an impression by the people you know. Sometimes that's love, and sometimes it hurts. aww, aren't I getting deep? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Oh I see. Deep or not you're awful at explaining things :p I hurt just as many people without being in relationships. Do I win? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nightwolf Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I've only been in love with somebody once (not including friends/family) and even though he was a tit at the end and he changed and sometimes made me upset, I wouldn't have changed being in love. ^_^ at least now I can go and fall in love with somebody else! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daft Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 I hurt just as many people without being in relationships. Do I win? Self-respect. Which is all anyone really needs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jordan Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Oh please, you cynical single people. Love is fantastic! I love Letty so much that *insert hundreds of cliché here*. The fact is, even if I lost Letty knowing that she loves me right now is all that I need most of the time. Sure, we have arguments, tiffs and little goes at each other. But in the grand scale i don't see how that even matters. I don't think this even relates to anything thats been said. I just wanted to say it... Random monologue! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nightwolf Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 aww ^_^ that's sweet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Oh please, you cynical single people. Love is fantastic! I love Letty so much that *insert hundreds of cliché here*. The fact is, even if I lost Letty knowing that she loves me right now is all that I need most of the time. Sure, we have arguments, tiffs and little goes at each other. But in the grand scale i don't see how that even matters. I don't think this even relates to anything thats been said. I just wanted to say it... Random monologue! Again this may be because I have not yardstick to compare it to but im damn happy as I am thanks. Without the pesky sidekick. Particularly in comparisson to my friends in relationships stuck in and being dull while im out awesoming 24/7/365! Im not cynical. Im a narcissist. I'm in love with myself and ain't nobody out there better than me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReZourceman Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Again this may be because I have not yardstick to compare it to but im damn happy as I am thanks. Without the pesky sidekick. Particularly in comparisson to my friends in relationships stuck in and being dull while im out awesoming 24/7/365! Sounds like shit relationships, we or I can go out whenever I/we please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nightwolf Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Sounds like shit relationships, we or I can go out whenever I/we please. Indeed! When in a relationship even though I have awful commitment issues, it's still nice to turn up to see somebody and know it's more than just sex, that person loves all of you, not just whats in your pants. Don't get me wrong though, if ashley is happy then who cares, I'm hypocritical somewhat as I can honestly say I hate I love you's and all this moving to be with somebody etc etc. It scares the shit out of me and ashley's way seems alot safer imo. I wish I could love myself as much as you do ashley, it would make my life easier too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rokhed00 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 Particularly in comparisson to my friends in relationships stuck in and being dull while im out awesoming 24/7/365! There's a lot to be said for a nice cosy night in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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