Goafer Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Being happier can be as simple as that. Except that doesn't make it easy. Some people can just decide to cheer up. Others are spiteful to themselves and don't make the effort to cheer up. I'm one of the latter and I envy you for being able to just do it. I used to be the same and probably still am a bit. I had just had enough of being miserable. I think it helped that I had a negative role model. He was miserable, racist and generally angry at the world. I decided I wasn't going to be like him and just made more of an effort to be happy. I guess it just confuses me how people complain about being miserable, but then do nothing to rectify it. And it's something I'm guilty of too.
Pookiablo Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 I guess it just confuses me how people complain about being miserable, but then do nothing to rectify it. And it's something I'm guilty of too. Couldn't agree anymore. Of course some things (like a death in the family for example) can't fall into that category but even then, it's a case of just getting on with life and finding happiness again. It's like people who complain about being unfit or out of shape or fat, yet they do absolutely nothing to try and change it. It's kinda ironic in a way.
Dante Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 (edited) I agree on what Evil, Pookiablo, Goaferboy and Jayseven said and I dont think she would be happy with this talk is going on about her. Edited April 8, 2009 by Dante
Pookiablo Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 I agree on what Evil,Goaferboy and Jayseven said and I dont think she would be happy with this talk is going on about her. I said that...why don't you agree with me too...*cries for attention!*
Goafer Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Couldn't agree anymore. Of course some things (like a death in the family for example) can't fall into that category but even then, it's a case of just getting on with life and finding happiness again. Definately. There should always be time for feeling a bit low after any bad news, no matter how trivial. But the first step for me to feeling better is to realise how miserable I am and try to do something about it. Allowing yourself to stay miserable helps no one, least of all yourself.
Goafer Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 I agree on what Evil, Pookiablo, Goaferboy and Jayseven said and I dont think she would be happy with this talk is going on about her. For the record: I don't hate her. I don't even know her. And also for the record: I'm not trying to sound harsh to Jordan and say he is coping badly or anything. Just pointing out that the best way to cheer up is to want to.
Pookiablo Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Ooooh, I liking the stroking, hell, I like you guys, you can come over to my house and fuck my sister! (To quote the great Full Metal Jacket)
Ellmeister Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Woah what has Jayseven done to scare Nightwolf away? You made a girl leave! She was a nice girl who wouldn't completely label us all nerds! :p Silly Jayseven, you get a fish* slap on the face when we have the summer meet up! Note: May not contain fish.
Pookiablo Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Woah what has Jayseven done to scare Nightwolf away? You made a girl leave! She was a nice girl who wouldn't completely label us all nerds! :p Silly Jayseven, you get a fish* slap on the face when we have the summer meet up! Note: May not contain fish. Yeah but she's always so bloody miserable! I'm hoping she reads this, maybe it'll spark an angry response via the forums!
Ellmeister Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Her last activity was yesterday but her last post was like 3 weeks ago! GO N-E TEAM! BRING HER BACK! We need Coolness He can make anyone do anything
Goafer Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Her last activity was yesterday but her last post was like 3 weeks ago! GO N-E TEAM! BRING HER BACK! We need Coolness He can make anyone do anything Yeah! I wish she would come back. She was all wolfy and night-like! That was a pathetic attempt on my part. To be honest, I've absolutely no idea who you're talking about.
Dante Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Ooooh, I liking the stroking, hell, I like you guys, you can come over to my house and fuck my sister! (To quote the great Full Metal Jacket) This is my rifle. This is my gun. This is for fighting. This is for fun. Woah what has Jayseven done to scare Nightwolf away? You made a girl leave! She was a nice girl who wouldn't completely label us all nerds! :p Silly Jayseven, you get a fish* slap on the face when we have the summer meet up! Note: May not contain fish. What did you do Jayseven?
MoogleViper Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Yeah! I wish she would come back. She was all wolfy and night-like! That was a pathetic attempt on my part. To be honest, I've absolutely no idea who you're talking about. You see this nightwolf? People don't even know who you are. Now get your fine ass back here and starting posting like you've never posted before.
Jav_NE Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Yeah, what did Jay do? Im intrigued now! Nightwolf didn;t seem like the person to pack up and leave over anything though so, i dont get it. She needs to bring her ass back. As for you Jordan, think of it this way. She was going to meet someone at some point. Rather now than later, and you did have warning. She has closure as she has been thinking about the break up longer than you so, as much as it hurts, you just have to find your own closure. Oh and talk to your mates when you're sad like Jay said, not send them away. Its nothing to be embarassed about.
Pookiablo Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 You see this nightwolf? People don't even know who you are. Now get your fine ass back here and starting posting like you've never posted before. Amen my brother! Fine indeed!
Ashley Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 For fucks sake stop the fucking gossip If people wish to discuss their life here than fine, however don't start gossiping about who may have done what or talking about others personal lives. Yes Jordan spoke about Letty but thats relevant to his life, everyone else is just acting like they're in the bloody square. And now that I'm rhiled up and have dissertation to work if people carry on acting like busy-boddies than I'll rampage.
MoogleViper Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 For fucks sake stop the fucking gossip I hardly see it as gossiping. Jordan posted about how he was upset and people offered him advice and support. Nobody was discussing him and letty in any detail. If Jordan didn't want people to talk to him then he wouldn't have posted it in the first place and wouldn't have replied.
Ellmeister Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Moogle is going to get bitch-slapped now :p My day has been filled with work. Except it hasn;t Stupid procrastination!
Ashley Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Yes Jordan spoke about Letty but thats relevant to his life I was talking more about the "ooh wheres Nightwolf, what is she up to? why has she left? what are the details? what did Jay do?" etc etc. If either of them want to share the details they will.
EEVILMURRAY Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 what did Jay do? etc etc. If either of them want to share the details they will. He's pretty much expressed an intention to share more. I don't believe he expects us all to blame him on such limited information. [i could be wrong Jay, either way my heart still beats for you.]
Guest Jordan Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 I was talking more about the "ooh wheres Nightwolf, what is she up to? why has she left? what are the details? what did Jay do?" etc etc. If either of them want to share the details they will. Ashley... Let the people gossip. It's not doing any harm. Besides, it is really shit when someone just doesn't say what happens. I mean, its like a conversational cock block or something.
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