chairdriver Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 Mix of both. I think I'm naturally homosexual, but I'm more "gay" because I have 4 sisters.
Ashley Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Pfft I dunno what's happening to be honest. I like this girl, a lot. She knows I'm gay and stuff and were real close, but I'm starting to feel more now...and I don't want to =/ And it doesn't help that I'm madly in love (bit of an over-statement I know :P) with one of her best friends, which is a guy. That's how I came to know her cuz the guy I like I met at Stagecoach January this year, he says his not gay but I'm so sure he is, and most of his friends think so too. Not because his overly camp, but he has so many traits of a gay/bi person. Not sure whether he is just doesn't want to let it out yet or is trying to deny the fact that he is? Or maybe he is just simply straight...which isn't my favourite option obviously =P So yeah, there's my dilemma =/ Oooo but I am spending more time with him, we have got real close recently =] Maybe (going by pop-pysch here) the girl fulfills you with something (closeness) that he doesn't. And it is just a genuine desire to be with someone in some way. Maybe the gender is regardless, perhaps what is important is the happiness. New topic! We were talking about this in ethics earlier this week for some reason, and eventually the conversation around the class lead to whether being gay or bisexual is the effect of your upbringing, or whether you're just born being attaracted to the same or both sexes. Basically, the nature or nurture question. We also discussed about whether everyone is Bisexual, whether it be just that 0.0001% of someones sexuality, even if they don't realise it. We know that many animals display bisexual behaviour so why is it considered wrong to be bisexual (or gay)? (I know thats about 3 new topics, but meh) What do you think? Personally (and I do mean that, this is not a "this subtopic is stupid" kinda of thing) I've never found that interesting. I don't care. Same as being a vegetarian. I don't care about the grand scheme behind it, the politics, the rules and such. I just am. End of. Welcome to discuss of course but thats my opinion thrown in.
triforce_keeper Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 New topic! We were talking about this in ethics earlier this week for some reason, and eventually the conversation around the class lead to whether being gay or bisexual is the effect of your upbringing, or whether you're just born being attaracted to the same or both sexes. Basically, the nature or nurture question. We also discussed about whether everyone is Bisexual, whether it be just that 0.0001% of someones sexuality, even if they don't realise it. We know that many animals display bisexual behaviour so why is it considered wrong to be bisexual (or gay)? (I know thats about 3 new topics, but meh) What do you think? I think my upbringing had something to do with it, as I have a very very girly sister, she's the one who got me into acting/dancing and stuff. I was mothered a hell of a lot too, didn't really like my dad when I was growing up, maybe because he was the only masculine figure around me? And I didn't like it? He also was at work a lot too, so I spent a lot of time with my mum. So I think it's down to being around girls too much... But when people say "what turned you gay?" It makes me kinda angry, and I immediately say "nothing turned me, I believe I was born gay" So I think it's a mix of both, as chairdriver said Maybe (going by pop-pysch here) the girl fulfills you with something (closeness) that he doesn't. And it is just a genuine desire to be with someone in some way. Maybe the gender is regardless, perhaps what is important is the happiness. Hmm, now you say that I think you may be right. Can anyone give me some advice in my "dilemma"? I mean, he is my first real crush, and I really don't know what to do..
Iun Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 I have to agree with Ashley, you are what you are and you should be proud of that. Unless you molest bicycles. I think we can all agree that's wrong.
mr_bogus Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 I could've had any man I wanted last night, if I'd wanted a man. It felt so good to be told how sexy and beautiful I am that I almost did anyway, but it never went further than kissing. All the years I've been with my wife she has never said that about me when I'm a girl. Do you know whether she finds you attractive as a girl? So i'll take it this was the biggest night out as rokgirl? Nice one Where about did you go?
rokhed00 Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Do you know whether she finds you attractive as a girl? I really don't know, she says she does but I'm not so sure as she uses words like 'amazing' , which can be interpreted several different ways. So i'll take it this was the biggest night out as rokgirl? Nice one Where about did you go? We went to this club, it was OK, and I got lots of attention, but it would probably have been better going to a pure fetish club. Just a shame my camera was lost.
DomJcg Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 oh come on, its hardly shocking, in the past two days i've seen men prance around in dress with make up on, this is hardly different (lol, producers and stardust.) i wanna know who they are... ah well, investigations say they are randomers from stunners gallery
Roostophe Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 oh come on, its hardly shocking, in the past two days i've seen men prance around in dress with make up on, this is hardly different (lol, producers and stardust.) I know these sort of people exist...but I just don't want to see pictures like that! EVER! *runs off sobbing* ...how could THAT be a lifestyle?...
rokhed00 Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 oh come on, its hardly shocking, in the past two days i've seen men prance around in dress with make up on, this is hardly different (lol, producers and stardust.) i wanna know who they are... ah well, investigations say they are randomers from stunners gallery Go down there sometime, you might bump in to them. It's a good place to meet people like that anyway and it's a really friendly place, everyone is so nice. I know these sort of people exist...but I just don't want to see pictures like that! EVER! *runs off sobbing* ...how could THAT be a lifestyle?... You bloody prude.
chairdriver Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 I know these sort of people exist...but I just don't want to see pictures like that! EVER! *runs off sobbing* ...how could THAT be a lifestyle?... That picture isn't even shocking though. It's just two ugly men wearing make-up and skirts. It's not like they are doing something horrific.
Roostophe Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 You bloody prude. Excuse me, Princess? That picture isn't even shocking though. It's just two ugly men wearing make-up and skirts. It's not like they are doing something horrific. It's the ugliness of the two men that gets to me, y'see.
Ashley Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 You bloody prude. I wouldn't say its prude. You can just simply not like something.
Slaggis Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 I wouldn't say its prude. You can just simply not like something. Exactly. Rokhead you have to stop jumping on people for saying something that you don't agree with in this thread, to do with the whole cross dressing thing or whatever. There's a difference between being a prude and just not liking something.
Mikey Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Pfft I dunno what's happening to be honest. I like this girl, a lot. She knows I'm gay and stuff and were real close, but I'm starting to feel more now...and I don't want to =/ And it doesn't help that I'm madly in love (bit of an over-statement I know :P) with one of her best friends, which is a guy. That's how I came to know her cuz the guy I like I met at Stagecoach January this year, he says his not gay but I'm so sure he is, and most of his friends think so too. Not because his overly camp, but he has so many traits of a gay/bi person. Not sure whether he is just doesn't want to let it out yet or is trying to deny the fact that he is? Or maybe he is just simply straight...which isn't my favourite option obviously =P So yeah, there's my dilemma =/ Oooo but I am spending more time with him, we have got real close recently =] You're 14, mate. As a teenager, your sexuality is still developing. Don't worry so much about it.
triforce_keeper Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 You're 14, mate. As a teenager, your sexuality is still developing. Don't worry so much about it. Yeah s'pose....15 on the 8th Dec though =] Just thought I would point that out...
Ashley Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Yeah s'pose....15 on the 8th Dec though =] Just thought I would point that out... Fishing for a birthday thread? :p Urgh. I don't know if I want my friend or not. Could be awkward if I approach the subject. I do know I want a particular person though.
Mikey Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 You're probs gonna like dudes for the rest of your life, but if you do develop an attraction to girls, don't repress it, go out and bang some faje.
Letty Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Im quite disappointed about Rokhed's camera loss
Mikey Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Fishing for a birthday thread? :p Urgh. I don't know if I want my friend or not. Could be awkward if I approach the subject. I do know I want a particular person though. I guess that's the good thing about being gay, if you know someone else is gay, they'll approach you if they're interested. When you're straight like me, you dunno what the fuk women think of you. Im quite disappointed about Rokhed's camera loss He sent me a PM to one of his strap on pornos, but you have to pay to watch. I don't pay for porn, so not female on male sodomy viewing for me.
triforce_keeper Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Fishing for a birthday thread? :p Never! You're probs gonna like dudes for the rest of your life, but if you do develop an attraction to girls, don't repress it, go out and bang some faje. Will do matey, will do.
Ashley Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 I guess that's the good thing about being gay, if you know someone else is gay, they'll approach you if they're interested. When you're straight like me, you dunno what the fuk women think of you. You think it works like that?
chairdriver Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Being gay is annoying, (especially when your gaydar is shite) cos you are never sure who else is gay, and I'm always scared of offending if I start chatting a guy up who isn't gay.
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