The bold bit is the only problem I see with this. Why won't she divorce?
The girl I'm seeing is separated too, with a couple kids, but shes going through divorce at the moment. I don't mind that she's got kids, my oldest mephew isn't my brother's but I love him just as much as my other nephews. It's this that probably changed my views on dating girls with kids.
If she said to me that she wouldn't get a divorce I wouldn't be able to keep seeing her though. It's definitely something that wouldn't sit right with me.
I'm glad she is though! We're getting on amazingly well and she's asked me to meet the family so I'm happy!
EDIT: Met her Mum this weekend! I was at the girlfriend's and her Mum popped round briefly to meet me informally, haha. I didn't mind and wasn't nervous.
Had a great half weekend with her, I'm right loved up! #SoppyBastard