Falcon_BlizZACK Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 (Hi guys;) I know we live in a culture of masturbation being a fine and safe alternative to sex with all its perceived benefits etc... But... Having masturbated since the age of 12 and never ceasing for more than a week for the past 13 years, I would say there are more negatives than there are positives especially if you want a healthy sexual relationship with a partner. Depending on how you masturbate, you can so easily desensitize your penis to the feeling of actual sex - this is probably the biggest unseen factor for young men having perceived erectile dysfunction or just simply lacking the desire to want to have sex. And as a double-edged sword, if you masturbate to extreme porn you could well be desensitizing your mind to 'simple' sex, leaving you only capable to respond to (in lay mans term) some fucked up sh!t. Heh. I don't advise masturbation - I say get a girlfriend.
Diageo Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 (Hi guys;) I know we live in a culture of masturbation being a fine and safe alternative to sex with all its perceived benefits etc... But... Having masturbated since the age of 12 and never ceasing for more than a week for the past 13 years, I would say there are more negatives than there are positives especially if you want a healthy sexual relationship with a partner. Depending on how you masturbate, you can so easily desensitize your penis to the feeling of actual sex - this is probably the biggest unseen factor for young men having perceived erectile dysfunction or just simply lacking the desire to want to have sex. And as a double-edged sword, if you masturbate to extreme porn you could well be desensitizing your mind to 'simple' sex, leaving you only capable to respond to (in lay mans term) some fucked up sh!t. Heh. I don't advise masturbation - I say get a girlfriend. That doesn't sound true, or at least I hope it isn't. Wouldn't 90 percent of the country be desensitised then?
D_prOdigy Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 (Hi guys;) I know we live in a culture of masturbation being a fine and safe alternative to sex with all its perceived benefits etc... But... Having masturbated since the age of 12 and never ceasing for more than a week for the past 13 years, I would say there are more negatives than there are positives especially if you want a healthy sexual relationship with a partner. Depending on how you masturbate, you can so easily desensitize your penis to the feeling of actual sex - this is probably the biggest unseen factor for young men having perceived erectile dysfunction or just simply lacking the desire to want to have sex. And as a double-edged sword, if you masturbate to extreme porn you could well be desensitizing your mind to 'simple' sex, leaving you only capable to respond to (in lay mans term) some fucked up sh!t. Heh. I don't advise masturbation - I say get a girlfriend. Don't you give us sexual advice. WE MADE YOU
Ashley Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I don't advise masturbation - I say get a girlfriend. Available in all good stores this holiday season!
Falcon_BlizZACK Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 Don't you give us sexual advice. WE MADE YOU Hahahaha... Ugh, don't remind me.
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I say get a girlfriend. While your points may or may not be true, I can't help but cringe at that last comment. Suffering from a pretty bad case of low self-esteem and having done so pretty much my entire life, simply being told to "get a girlfriend" like it's the easiest task on Earth feels somewhat insulting, especially to one who's struggling to do exactly that - or at least feels he is. Having said that, it should be noted that I of course know there was absolutely no harm meant with the comment, and that I'm fully aware that it's just me whining about my psychological insecurity issues right now. So please don't take it badly in any way, and please be so kind as to not tell me how potentially pathetic this comment is. 'Cause I know it probably is. Anyway, whining over, please move along.
Ellmeister Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 King_V those are pretty extreme cases, I think I could be safe in saying that wouldn't happen unless you do it a heck of a lot and I'm talking an unhealthy amount of times a day. PLus the porn idea is surely only going to occur if you are sick enough to watch some extreme type of porn anyway? Besides, saying get a girlfriend doesn't make it all become easy. Having masturbated since the age of 12 and never ceasing for more than a week for the past 13 years Why then did you not get a girlfriend? I've seen the pictures of you ripped as hell, it amazes me how you didn't get a girlfriend for so long!
Falcon_BlizZACK Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 That doesn't sound true, or at least I hope it isn't. Wouldn't 90 percent of the country be desensitised then? I have a lot of friends working in these areas (not using this as a source , and actually there are loads of people, with patients getting younger and younger, with chronic sexual malfunctions. Some link it to porn being so easily available. Who knows.
Ashley Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 To further the criticism "don't masturbate, get a girlfriend" kind of makes it sound like you think women are nothing more than a fist replacement.
Falcon_BlizZACK Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 (edited) While your points may or may not be true, I can't help but cringe at that last comment. Suffering from a pretty bad case of low self-esteem and having done so pretty much my entire life, simply being told to "get a girlfriend" like it's the easiest task on Earth feels somewhat insulting, especially to one who's struggling to do exactly that - or at least feels he is. Having said that, it should be noted that I of course know there was absolutely no harm meant with the comment, and that I'm fully aware that it's just me whining about my psychological insecurity issues right now. So please don't take it badly in any way, and please be so kind as to not tell me how potentially pathetic this comment is. 'Cause I know it probably is. Anyway, whining over, please move along. Hey, hey, no offence at all. Low self seteem or not, lol, I sure know the difficulties of 'getting a girlfriend' - apologies if I seem insulting. All I meant was; don't get too comfortable with masturbation. To further the criticism "don't masturbate, get a girlfriend" kind of makes it sound like you think women are nothing more than a fist replacement. Hahahahaha Why then did you not get a girlfriend? I've seen the pictures of you ripped as hell, it amazes me how you didn't get a girlfriend for so long! Hey, I was a "only serious relationships" type guy for starters, and sure earlier on I had my insecurities too. But what does a 15 year old care of how desensitized his penis could get from masturbating? Even now, I won't lie, I masturbate while having a no-deep-strings attached girlfriend who I can go to for sex anytime. But Im still addicted. Im actually looking towards psychotherapy etc. Actually, by that epic thread, during that sex; I couldn't feel a thing... But now...(DR Hibert chuckle).... and thats by reducing my masturbating to one day a week.... Sunday! I just don't want people to go through the same frustration. Edited June 20, 2010 by King_V Automerged Doublepost
Shino Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 Actually, by that epic thread, during that sex; I couldn't feel a thing... But now...(DR Hibert chuckle).... and thats by reducing my masturbating to one day a week.... Sunday! I just don't want people to go through the same frustration. Today is the day!
Diageo Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 All I know is that I've probably wanked for years now and still, if sometimes I move around in bed with a boner and it innocently rubs off the mattress, it can still feel good. I don't even want to imagine what (sober) sex will be like. ... Hey, do you at least make sunday special? Like dim the lights, maybe turn off your phone, go all out for the day, or is it just the quick one in the shower?
DuD Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 Hey, do you at least make sunday special? Like dim the lights, maybe turn off your phone, go all out for the day, or is it just the quick one in the shower? Hahaaaaaaa. Brilliant. Fucking Brilliant
MoogleViper Posted June 22, 2010 Author Posted June 22, 2010 if you masturbate to extreme porn you could well be desensitizing your mind to 'simple' sex, leaving you only capable to respond to (in lay mans term) some fucked up sh!t. Heh. This is true. When I have sex I often find myself wishing I was a cup.
EEVILMURRAY Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 To further the criticism "don't masturbate, get a girlfriend" kind of makes it sound like you think women are nothing more than a fist replacement. Plus it's sexism against the raging queens of the world.
rizz Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Going camping with friends meant we had no time to ourselves for a week. When I got back I knew I could get sex the next night. That next day was a very long day.
Beast Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Going camping with friends meant we had no time to ourselves for a week. When I got back I knew I could get sex the next night. That next day was a very long day. I'm just going to be 100% honest and say something but I misread your name, haha. I looked at the thread title and saw who the last person to post on it was and I started laughing until I read it properly, haha. I need to go to Specsavers, lol.
Paj! Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 I'm just going to be 100% honest and say something but I misread your name, haha. I looked at the thread title and saw who the last person to post on it was and I started laughing until I read it properly, haha. I need to go to Specsavers, lol.
Wesley Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 (Hi guys;) I know we live in a culture of masturbation being a fine and safe alternative to sex with all its perceived benefits etc... But... Having masturbated since the age of 12 and never ceasing for more than a week for the past 13 years, I would say there are more negatives than there are positives especially if you want a healthy sexual relationship with a partner. Depending on how you masturbate, you can so easily desensitize your penis to the feeling of actual sex - this is probably the biggest unseen factor for young men having perceived erectile dysfunction or just simply lacking the desire to want to have sex. And as a double-edged sword, if you masturbate to extreme porn you could well be desensitizing your mind to 'simple' sex, leaving you only capable to respond to (in lay mans term) some fucked up sh!t. Heh. I don't advise masturbation - I say get a girlfriend. Most of your points here are pretty flawed... Your assumption that masturbating would have an adverse effect on sexual desire is largely dependent on the persons own labido and the frequency of masturbation. Also, the idea that your penis' sensitivity is reduced through masturbation also largely depends on the frequency and the manner in which you masturbate (eg. using lube or sandpaper). And finally the idea that pornography would some how cause you to find "simple" (I'm using your use here) sex unsatisfying is also very sketchy... some people don't go for the extremes and are quite happy with skimpy Nuts magazines and that sort of trash. I know you've had 13 years of good wanking experience, and maybe you've had problems with your partner, but... I dunno, all sounds a bit silly. My advice is to masturbate if you want and don't if you don't - no one gives a toss.
Murr Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 i finish work at 3pm today.... girlfriend finishes at 8pm. when i went to bed last night i was actually thinking about the amount of time i've got to grub one out before she gets home. then i'll dupe her into tugging me anyway, and it'll last longer due to emptying out prior to her being there... and i'll be all like.. Yeah im a pornstar!
Diageo Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 i finish work at 3pm today.... girlfriend finishes at 8pm. when i went to bed last night i was actually thinking about the amount of time i've got to grub one out before she gets home. then i'll dupe her into tugging me anyway, and it'll last longer due to emptying out prior to her being there... and i'll be all like.. Yeah im a pornstar! Careful, she might get tennis elbow.
Wesley Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 i finish work at 3pm today.... girlfriend finishes at 8pm. when i went to bed last night i was actually thinking about the amount of time i've got to grub one out before she gets home. then i'll dupe her into tugging me anyway, and it'll last longer due to emptying out prior to her being there... and i'll be all like.. Yeah im a pornstar! Careful though... if your cum barrel isn't replenished by the time she comes home, then your body actually uses the urine reserve and you'll just wet yourself. Which actually can lead to a bigger problem, because if you don't need to pee then it'll just create a vacuum inside your urine reserve and it'll actually explode. It happen to my friend once.
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