The dude talks sense. I didnt really go out much when i as at school, and hence never really met anybody who i would consider going out with, let alone would want to go out with me. Then i came to Uni, and met my girlfriend. Uni is just a better medium to meet people in, especially if you are quiet like you are. I dont know if you are at Uni, or are planning to, but i really wouldnt worry about it. Sex isnt the only thing in the world, and theres no point in yearning for it.