jayseven Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 But ashley, you're gay. You must lovepirates. P.S. Dannyboy taht picture genuinely scares me.
Ashley Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Pirates are gay? Yup. Johnny Depp made them so. But ashley, you're gay. You must lovepirates. P.S. Dannyboy taht picture genuinely scares me. I'm not gay you hobo.
Dannyboy-the-Dane Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 But ashley, you're gay. You must lovepirates. P.S. Dannyboy taht picture genuinely scares me. What? You never seen a pirate, a bee, and a funny old man drinking hanging out? What kind of parties do you go to?
Retro_Link Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 P.S. Dannyboy taht picture genuinely scares me. I know!! Her roots are really bad! *snap snap*
Haden Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I like how in the first two your friends aren't acknowledging you, you're just sort of lingering. Oh I know you're the big "friendship expert" oh I'm sorry I forgot all your pictures are of you alone!!!!! (Thats a modified arrested development quote Ashley has lots of nice friends I am not some sort of mean bully) In the end I didn't go to Waterloo Eenuh will do that another time. Have to say I love Brussels you have a lovely capital the main square is amazing!
jayseven Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Ashley, you're well gay. And Deluded. And fat. And gay.
Ashley Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 (edited) Oh I know you're the big "friendship expert" oh I'm sorry I forgot all your pictures are of you alone!!!!! (Thats a modified arrested development quote Ashley has lots of nice friends I am not some sort of mean bully) In the end I didn't go to Waterloo Eenuh will do that another time. Have to say I love Brussels you have a lovely capital the main square is amazing! I have friends, I even have friends with boobs! and am also friends with hobos and Dan. Ashley, you're well gay. And Deluded. And fat. And gay. Please, I can't stand gays (or at least in any kind of relationshippy terms). I'm pretty sure I'm going to die bitter old and alone. Unless I can ring the KBell. Edited August 30, 2009 by Ashley
Daft Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Please, I can't stand gays (or at least in any kind of relationshippy terms). What a pleasant thing to say.
Haden Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I have friends, I even have friends with boobs! and am also friends with hobos and Dan. Please, I can't stand gays (or at least in any kind of relationshippy terms). I'm pretty sure I'm going to die bitter old and alone. Unless I can ring the KBell. Back of the net!
Ashley Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 What a pleasant thing to say. I can't date a "gay" (as in someone who fits within the, granted stereotypical, but still existing definition). As people they're fine, many of my friends are, but I've never met one I'd wish to date. Same as I couldn't date someone like my brother's girl who is sweet as pie but not the brightest bulb bless her. (that came off as more "I don't hate _, some of my best friends are _" reply than I intended)
Daft Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I just thought you were smart enough to not use generalisations. Apparently not.
Ashley Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Gay as a personality, not a sexual preference. I try to avoid them but there does seem to be a lot of homosexual people who seem to portray themselves as a Graham Norton gay which is fine in itself, they can be fun people to be around but I've never found them dateable. I'd prefer a Neil Patrick Harris gay personally.
Haden Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I hate gay people they are so over the top and dramatic it makes me want to set myself on fire!
Ashley Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I think this is a case of you're reading a lot into some mismanaged semantics. We wouldn't be having this discussion if I said I liked feisty petitie blondes. Yes we use stereotypes as shorthand and it can have a negative effect but I know what I mean and how I feel and I'm just not expressing it well. It'd be too long and boring for me to list all the things I like and dislike in a person and I'm sorry if I caused offense as it was not my intent.
Daft Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I think this is a case of you're reading a lot into some mismanaged semantics. We wouldn't be having this discussion if I said I liked feisty petitie blondes. Yes we use stereotypes as shorthand and it can have a negative effect but I know what I mean and how I feel and I'm just not expressing it well. It'd be too long and boring for me to list all the things I like and dislike in a person and I'm sorry if I caused offense as it was not my intent. If you had said camp brunette guys, that comparison might be valid. It's the fact that you group people. You don't like 'gay as a personality', you try and 'avoid them' but you don't know these people as individuals, you're just vomiting forth this socially accepted image with no thought of your own.
Ashley Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 If you had said camp brunette guys, that comparison might be valid. It's the fact that you group people. You don't like 'gay as a personality', you try and 'avoid them' but you don't know these people as individuals, you're just vomiting forth this socially accepted image with no thought of your own. I do know the people I don't wish to date as individuals first, I don't try and date strangers. My friend Tom (for example) is a great friend and fits into this category and I don't want to date him. Maybe one day I'll find someone I do want to date but come what may. And I don't 'avoid them' in the sense of running away, I just have no lustings after them. Oh and I actually have no desire to date any guy at the moment anyway but I don't believe that makes me a misandrist.
Haden Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 If you had said camp brunette guys, that comparison might be valid. It's the fact that you group people. You don't like 'gay as a personality', you try and 'avoid them' but you don't know these people as individuals, you're just vomiting forth this socially accepted image with no thought of your own. This is what SOAS does to people damn hippie uni! I jest I jest I went there for a term I remember damn anti war protesters blocking me off on more than one occasion.
Daft Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 (edited) This is what SOAS does to people damn hippie uni! I jest I jest I went there for a term I remember damn anti war protesters blocking me off on more than one occasion. No, you're definitely right to an extent. I think the one thing SOAS teaches a lot of people is to vocalise. I haven't changed my views that much since going there. And I support the third runway. I do know the people I don't wish to date as individuals first, I don't try and date strangers. My friend Tom (for example) is a great friend and fits into this category and I don't want to date him. Maybe one day I'll find someone I do want to date but come what may. And I don't 'avoid them' in the sense of running away, I just have no lustings after them. Oh and I actually have no desire to date any guy at the moment anyway but I don't believe that makes me a misandrist. You're missing the point. Don't worry. Edited August 30, 2009 by Daft
Ashley Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 You're saying I fit people within stereotypical boxes and don't look at individuality. I know I don't. Therein lies this rather tired point.
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