Eenuh Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Ah-ah, I love a woman with determination. You show them who's boss!(that's why I hate porn... all the girls are like slaves... how unfitting) Same reason why I hate it I think. They rarely seem to really enjoy it either, just all seems too fake. Bah. Ah well, I'm sexually inexperienced so I shouldn't be talking too much in here. XD
Oxigen_Waste Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 The idea of giving oral to a woman really, really doesn't appeal to me. Anything else, fine, but that just really doesn't appeal in the slightest. Why not? I mean, I love it because I feel so connected to them doing it, it takes a lot of intimacy, trust and dedication to go down on someone the way they love it. Here's my approach... Wether she comes or not, I'm gonna come either way, so why not make it a priority to allow her to come first. My advice is... you get used to the idea, if you get god doing it, it's the best way you have to make your partner happy (most times, of course), coz penetration will only get you nowhere fast. Take my advice, when having sex, make sure you make her come at least twice before going in. Men complain that women aren't as sexual as they are and so on, well, it's because guys lack commitment, they walk in expecting to get their shlongs sucked and they somehow believe that the girls love it to death. And guess what? For dessert, they demand anal... *sigh*... Seriously, learn to please you woman (that sounded so pimpish), you'll be surprised just how sexual they can be if you know how to handle them correctly. Oh, and above everything else... respect boys, this is a person, if you're gonna do it, do it with someone you love, ok?
Slaggis Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 I'm not sure why really, it just really doesn't appeal to me. For a guy, it does, but for a girl it just doesn't. I'd completely understand if a girl I was going out with refused to give oral if I refused to give it in return. But that whole "they demand anal for dessert" is a bit of a generalisation, I mean, some guys are complete arses and expect to get in there, cum and get out, but most guys aren't like that. (Ok, well a fair few are, but not all).
Oxigen_Waste Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Ah well, I'm sexually inexperienced so I shouldn't be talking too much in here. XD Not at all, you're the one member I think should talk. You're the one who can't reach orgasm, so you're the one who should be trying to get an answer. (Although, might I add, I truly believe that your lack of sexual satisfaction is a male-derived problem. Not that I know anything about it, but... that's usually the cause. Be honest, stay relaxed, take charge of operations and try again... You'll see how it'll work out.) I'm not sure why really, it just really doesn't appeal to me. For a guy, it does, but for a girl it just doesn't. I'd completely understand if a girl I was going out with refused to give oral if I refused to give it in return. But that whole "the demand anal for dessert" is a bit of a generalisation, I mean, some guys are complete ***** and expect to get in there, cum and gt out, but most guys aren't like that. (Ok, well a fair few are, but not all). I know it was a generalisation... but you'd be surprised how many of those retards there are lurking around... Anyway, why doesn't it appeal to you? Do you find it disgusting or anything like that?
jayseven Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Personally I work on a "She's happy, I'm happy" policy. Ditto. Although not always in that order.
Eenuh Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Not at all, you're the one member I think should talk. You're the one who can't reach orgasm, so you're the one who should be trying to get an answer. (Although, might I add, I truly believe that your lack of sexual satisfaction is a male-derived problem. Not that I know anything about it, but... that's usually the cause. Be honest, stay relaxed, take charge of operations and try again... You'll see how it'll work out.) Well I'm single now, so can't really try much. But I was able to have more "pleasure" with my partner than I am able to give myself (seriously, nothing I do myself seems to give me anything enjoyable). Though that also depended on the moment, cause other times it just wouldn't work either, no matter how hard he tried. But in the end, it still always lead to nothing (and things would be painful too). Don't know what my problem is. =(
DCK Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 I understand Haggis to a degree. I hate to get my mouth full of hair, and it's not particularly tasty down there either. However, I put the girl's interests first too. It's bad sex when she doesn't come.
Slaggis Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Anyway, why doesn't it appeal to you? Do you find it disgusting or anything like that? Sort of I suppose. It's just the idea of going down on a girl just doesn't turn me on in the slightest.
Goron_3 Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 I'm with oxygen waste here; giving a girl oral is just awesome. Most of the time I have them rolling on the bed as she approaches her orgasm. it's such a turn on.
Oxigen_Waste Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Well I'm single now, so can't really try much. But I was able to have more "pleasure" with my partner than I am able to give myself (seriously, nothing I do myself seems to give me anything enjoyable). Though that also depended on the moment, cause other times it just wouldn't work either, no matter how hard he tried. But in the end, it still always lead to nothing (and things would be painful too). Don't know what my problem is. =( Ok, now I feel like I'm and intruder or something talking to you about this, coz I don't even know you, but... here's a suggestion: The next time you get yourself in a relationship, you make sure it's someone you can trust... and remember this: you're sharing your life with this person, he should be the most important person in your life and you the most important person in his, you must confide 100% in him and make sure that he does the same. Complete honesty and dedication. After that's done, do get yourself comfortable with this person, this is someone who should be willing to do anything to please you, you have to establish a comfort zone for the both of you, there can't be any awkwardness between you, okay? Treat him like a sister, don't be affraid to share everything with him, and I mean everything, ok? You should be in a position where you can fart and there won't be any uncomfortable silences. From then on... all you really have to do is try. Experimentation! Remember, this person must know all there is to know about you, being naked with each other should be something 100% comfortable. If you're feeling awkward, something isn't right. Discuss everything! And I mean EVERYTHING. You don't like how something feels? Tell him! This must work both ways. From this point on, it's all in both your hands, it's just a matter of discovering what makes you tick. If after that you still can't get anywhere... I suggest you go to a doctor anfd check it out, coz it's bound to be a physicall problem. Anywho, I can't stress enough how important it is that you're 100% comfortable with the guy. This is someone that you should be able to tell and share everything with. (Just to give an example, and I'm sorry if this sounds gross, but I'm just using what I know as an example. So she hand't gone to get her waxing done in almost 2 months. I waxed her coz she asked me too. It wasn't awkward, nor was it some kind of perv ritual. It was actually beautifull, you know? A moment of confiding. To feel such an inspiring trust coming from her. That's what I mean when I say 100% comfortable. No situation should be awkward between the two of you.) Sort of I suppose. It's just the idea of going down on a girl just doesn't turn me on in the slightest. Doesn't it turn you on to know you're giving someone the time of their life? I understand Haggis to a degree. I hate to get my mouth full of hair, and it's not particularly tasty down there either. However, I put the girl's interests first too. It's bad sex when she doesn't come. I acutally like how it tastes, to be honest. (dear god, that sounded so bad...)
Eenuh Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Ok, now I feel like I'm and intruder or something talking to you about this, coz I don't even know you, but... here's a suggestion: The next time you get yourself in a relationship, you make sure it's someone you can trust... and remember this: you're sharing your life with this person, he should be the most important person in your life and you the most important person in his, you must confide 100% in him and make sure that he does the same. Complete honesty and dedication. After that's done, do get yourself comfortable with this person, this is someone who should be willing to do anything to please you, you have to establish a comfort zone for the both of you, there can't be any awkwardness between you, okay? Treat him like a sister, don't be affraid to share everything with him, and I mean everything, ok? You should be in a position where you can fart and there won't be any uncomfortable silences. From then on... all you really have to do is try. Experimentation! Remember, this person must know all there is to know about you, being naked with each other should be something 100% comfortable. If you're feeling awkward, something isn't right. Discuss everything! And I mean EVERYTHING. You don't like how something feels? Tell him! This must work both ways. From this point on, it's all in both your hands, it's just a matter of discovering what makes you tick. If after that you still can't get anywhere... I suggest you go to a doctor anfd check it out, coz it's bound to be a physicall problem. Anywho, I can't stress enough how important it is that you're 100% comfortable with the guy. This is someone that you should be able to tell and share everything with. (Just to give an example, and I'm sorry if this sounds gross, but I'm just using what I know as an example. So she hand't gone to get her waxing done in almost 2 months. I waxed her coz she asked me too. It wasn't awkward, nor was it some kind of perv ritual. It was actually beautifull, you know? A moment of confiding. To feel such an inspiring trust coming from her. That's what I mean when I say 100% comfortable. No situation should be awkward between the two of you.) I did trust my boyfriend 100% (though the farting thing I rarely did, I never even fart around my family for some reason XD ) and he's the one I've ever felt closest to and I was always honest with him (even if it was something that could end up hurting his feelings). I don't know, guess I'll have to find someone else in the future and see if it works with them, if I can ever find someone who'd be interested in me. >.>;
Slaggis Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Doesn't it turn you on to know you're giving someone the time of their life? Yes, I suppose it would. But just the idea of doing it really doesn't appeal to me whatsoever. It's probably just me, but I just find it a bit..gross? Nah, thats too strong a word, but you get the idea.
Oxigen_Waste Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 I did trust my boyfriend 100% (though the farting thing I rarely did, I never even fart around my family for some reason XD ) and he's the one I've ever felt closest to and I was always honest with him (even if it was something that could end up hurting his feelings). I don't know, guess I'll have to find someone else in the future and see if it works with them, if I can ever find someone who'd be interested in me. >.>; (The farting thing was just an example... I'm not suggesting you should fart, I'm only saying you should be with someone who allows you to be yourself, like if you were alone.) Well, if he was that close to you, and if you did try to make it work... then maybe you should check it out, it may be a health issue, mental or physicall. Anyway, the best of luck on that. =/ (I'm actually kinda feeling sorry for you, now... ) Yes, I suppose it would. But just the idea of doing it really doesn't appeal to me whatsoever. It's probably just me, but I just find it a bit..gross? Nah, thats too strong a word, but you get the idea. Well, I absolutely love it, so... I can't much relate to what you're saying, but I "get it". And I assure you, it's not gross, this is a very clean and healthy place. A well treated vagina (I don't really know what else to call it, in this context) is one of the most pleasent things to... herm... eat.
Platty Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 I acutally like how it tastes, to be honest. I do too.
Platty Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Wanna start a band? Only if we name ourselves "the pussy lickers" dear oh dear that was bad, I do apologise.....
Haden Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Personally I work on a "She's happy, I'm happy" policy. This is the right policy to have and not just when it comes to sex lol. Personally I literally love womens noises and kinda expression when they are having fun so its all good for me lol.
jayseven Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Ah I'm starting to remember why I didn't bother reading this thread until recently... *goes and cries about being alone*... H8u all.
Guest Jordan Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Jeeze, some people on this forums On the subject of licking out of the female variety? Personally I enjoy it. Plus i'm apparently fucking awesome at it (then again whats to be good at it? Doesn't take much thought to know what girls like anyway...) I actually prefer to give than recieve (no anal jokes...), i'm like that in all aspects however. I give people things alot of the time, material poessesions, money, errr... cats? I trust Letty more than I ever have any person in my entire life, even people i've known for years and years longer. For one reason. Shes considerate of my feelings and vica versa. I love her with all my heart and i'm really commited to her... and if she'll put up with me I plan on staying with her for a very, very long time
jayseven Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 OH DEAR GOD HE'S ON ONE KNEE! Clear the room - clear the room!
Oxigen_Waste Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 OH DEAR GOD HE'S ON ONE KNEE! Clear the room - clear the room! :bowdown: :bowdown: :bowdown: :bowdown:
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ReZourceman Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 I do too. Agreed . It is basically what hornyess tastes like. tis a huge turn on lickin fannyage.
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