Posted March 30, 2007 right, theres this girl at school. I have liked her for the past god knows how long. We're wuite good friends now too. for the past couple of months she knows i have liked her. When she was drunk she was talkin to me and started saying she wanted to f**k me and shit like that. I then got told by one fo her friends that i should ask her out, though i still havent. I think...think she used to fancy me because i heard another of her friends talking to her, while looking at me and saying "so...do u still?". I was then told to ask her to the prom (for end of exams at my school), i did, she said yes, but only cos were mates we agreed. I really, really like her, but i dont want to ruin friendships by asking her out if i;m not 100% sure she'd say yeh. Do any of you guys think its obvious she doesn't...or does? Oh she invited me to go to cinema with her mates, we wetn and her friend called me "cute" and she said "oi shutup hes mine" lol Plz help lol!! I need advice!! :wink: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 I can't believe your actually asking for advice. And just because you go out and break up doesn't mean you automatically never be friends again. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 i'm askin for advice cos i'm an extremely shy person..i have never asked anyone out bfore and just wantef to know if i should. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 Eh, if those things are really things she's said, then go for it. Seems like she really wants you as her boyfriend. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 Go for it, I mean she's your friend if she knows you like her already it not like shes not expecting to be asked out. Even if she says no, as a friend she'll do it in a nice way and more than likely still be friends. My advice, go for it, you'll regret it more not doing it, even if it goes badly. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 i'm askin for advice cos i'm an extremely shy person..i have never asked anyone out bfore and just wantef to know if i should. I think you're hoping we'll say you shouldn't so that you won't feel guilty about not saying anything. So I'm sorry to disappoint you, but my magic 8-ball says you should. To be honest it doesn't have to be some big event where you climb up high and profess your love publicly. You say she's a friend, so surely you're going to be doing things together anyway? I think you can afford to just see how things pan out for a bit, as it sounds like your relationship is progressing regardless. Just don't wait too long and miss your chance. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 Doooo eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet. Just be nice, yourself and honest. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 I think you're hoping we'll say you shouldn't so that you won't feel guilty about not saying anything.QUOTE] Yep i was hoping lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 Oh and ask her out BEFORE you get beaten to a pulp by your drug dealing friend. Its really hard to do while lying in hospital. Unless your going for the sympathy vote. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2007 lmao thats very true, thx for the advice lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Just ask her. If you're shy then get a friend to do it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 i was in a similar situation with this girl and i asked her out, and now we've been going out for 6 weeks (best 6 weeks of my life ). Seriously mate, go for it. good luck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 I too was in a similar situation not long ago. But i plucked up the courage to do it and have been with my girlfriend for over two months now. Do it man, you won't regret it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 I can't believe your actually asking for advice. And just because you go out and break up doesn't mean you automatically never be friends again. I'd argue that point. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Just ask her. If you're shy then get a friend to do it. Do NOT do this. It shows you have little confidence in yourself. Girls hate that. Just ask her out, whats the worst that could happen? Even if she says no you'll still be friends after the initial awkwardness (sp?) has gone. Seriously though, crack on with it! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 I too was in a similar situation not long ago. But i plucked up the courage to do it and have been with my girlfriend for over two months now. Do it man, you won't regret it. So you really do have a girlfriend? I thought you were just making it up or something... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 So you really do have a girlfriend? I thought you were just making it up or something... Well I think it's a girl. How do you check the gender of a hand? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Sure, ask her out, why not? But don't come crying to use when she chews up your heart and spits it out at you. Which she most certainly will, as she is a woman. (sorry eenuh and katie, but it's true. You ALL Suck. *continues sobbing*) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Sure, ask her out, why not? But don't come crying to use when she chews up your heart and spits it out at you. Which she most certainly will, as she is a woman. (sorry eenuh and katie, but it's true. You ALL Suck. *continues sobbing*) There there Flinky. Come to pappa. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Do what me and Dabookerman do when we go out for drinks. Rape her and vomit into her open mouth. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Well I think it's a girl. How do you check the gender of a hand? i don't really want to know, mainly because i can't face the truth... *sigh* Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Unless there is a high powered electrical device involving large, rusty blades digging into your testicles which will be activated if the phrase "Yes" is detected, I reckon you should totally go for it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 Unless there is a high powered electrical device involving large, rusty blades digging into your testicles which will be activated if the phrase "Yes" is detected, I reckon you should totally go for it. one more, Gaggle proves his ability to prove the fucking truth with witty, wry and amusingly graphic posts. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 YEESSS! (just read the thread title, has no idea what you're talking about) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2007 one more, Gaggle proves his ability to prove the fucking truth with witty, wry and amusingly graphic posts. Fuck off, that's my occupation o_0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
