Yes, the comments grated me. I have no problem with casual sex, if you're having fun, being satisfied and not hurting anyone, then brilliant! It was the fact that Flamey said he wasn't going to do anything and then the ''Go on, fuck her!'' comments started. However jokey they were; they sounded tacky, immature and inappropriate to me. That's my opinion and I've not voiced it previously because I'm not interested in an argument. As someone astutely mentioned, men and women are usually poles apart on this kind of thing.