In fairness to @Nuntendo and @killthenet, I don't think they're shaming. Nuntendo specifically quotes me saying he knows there was no malice in my post and killthenet just says how it came across to him, that he says it's how it seemed to him shows he's not really shaming, just pointing it out so that we're aware (I think).
If it is the case that others may have seen it that way too then I think a new topic to discuss is ok and I've no problem with it. I'm happy to discuss as I have above and, again, I'm happy to apologise if people were offended as I didn't mean any offence.
If this is ironed out and people come to understanding one another then I'm all for the topic and us chatting in here.