Ash thats how I feel. Some of my friends are getting married others are having kid. Even my reletives of the same age group, 18-23, have kids, hell my cousin age 19 had a kid with his GF more than two years ago, now he has 3. But my siblings and I, I'm the oldest, just somtimes laugh and think how sad it kind of really is that they didn't plan on kids. And now they basicly have no life cause they have to work dead end jobs to support their spouse and kids.
I told my brother, he turns 18 in Dec, why have kids now I have better things to waste my money. He laughed and said how true that was.