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Just want to make one point. This is a good thread, and for once hasn't degenerated into homophobic slurs and stupid arguments.

One theme running through the thread is for a lot of people to say something along the lines of 'I have no problem with gay people, except the ones that flaunt it in front of everyone else'.

 

Most of us know at least one gay person who tends to flaunt it more than seems necessary, but I think it's worth stopping to think for a moment. But don't heterosexuals flaunt their sexuality even more? From couples holding hands and kissing in public places to the institution of marriage itself, from the media, film storylines and countless thousands of pop songs about heterosexual love, society is obsessed with its own heterosexuality.

 

Don't be hard on gays for emphasising the fact that they're different. The 'straight world' can be stifling at times.

I can't say I agree. Because wether you want it or not it isn't normal for a man/woman to act like a woman/man. I'm not talking about kissing and whatnot in public, I'm talking about mannerisms.

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you get a free pint for just doing that? lol awesome

 

lmao, now that must piss them off lol, or do they just insinuate they fancy you aswell?

 

Us rugby players always say how much we loooove each other anyway so it's no different really. Although perhaps I mean it just a tad more than them ;)

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You sure they wern't bi? That all sounds rather confusing.

 

It really depends on your definition of bisexual, if you count someone who has had sex with both genders then yes they were, but I see bisexual as a more mix and match situation, have a man one day, a woman the next and a man again the day after. To be honest I only knew one of them well enough to be sure of and they were gay their entire life, never been with a woman until they were in their thirties and I just saw them one day and they told me they'd met a woman and they were off men, they couldn't explain it either and he's still with her now and as far as I know hasn't been with a man since, and that was nearly ten years ago.

I know it's strange, but I don't really find it hard to believe, peoples personalities can change without conscious thought, sexuality is part of a persons personality, I don't see why that can't change too.

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It really depends on your definition of bisexual, if you count someone who has had sex with both genders then yes they were, but I see bisexual as a more mix and match situation, have a man one day, a woman the next and a man again the day after. To be honest I only knew one of them well enough to be sure of and they were gay their entire life, never been with a woman until they were in their thirties and I just saw them one day and they told me they'd met a woman and they were off men, they couldn't explain it either and he's still with her now and as far as I know hasn't been with a man since, and that was nearly ten years ago.

I know it's strange, but I don't really find it hard to believe, peoples personalities can change without conscious thought, sexuality is part of a persons personality, I don't see why that can't change too.

 

hang on, so if someone bi or gay were to act/become homophobic then you think they could turn straight, or vice versa? (Sorry if I mis-understood what you were saying lol)

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hang on, so if someone bi or gay were to act/become homophobic then you think they could turn straight, or vice versa? (Sorry if I mis-understood what you were saying lol)

 

I'm just saying it is possible for someone to change sexualities for no reason, I've seen it happen.

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Us rugby players always say how much we loooove each other anyway so it's no different really. Although perhaps I mean it just a tad more than them ;)

 

Rugby players in general all like to show just how comfortable they are with being straight and surrounded with other rugby players by being gay.

 

Fact.

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was on itv2 about the effect of drink and drugs. I've never been so tempted to join a rugby team, one of the guys was very cute. But i couldn't handle having a lemon pushed in my eye :(:shakehead

 

Ben Cohen > All other rugby players.

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Well every rugby player I've met from year 9 upwards seems to be in on a big joke where you pretend to be gay with your fellow rugby players.

 

Such activities include dry humping, dry gangbangs, naked training, naked rugby.

 

I don't think I really 'get' it. I suppose it's male bonding...?

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I was having a few fun rounds of gay chicken last night. I was mainly victorious prompting my mates to demand I "be more straight damn it, you have a girlfriend". It's a fair point, but I think it's pretty down to competitiveness. I can't lose, especially if it's a Scrubs reference. :heh:

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