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So everything's going to happen her way and on her terms? It's upto you, but I just think eventually that'd lead to problems down the line...

Yeah, it sounds like she's worried about the judgement from others, I can't see why else she'd suddenly want to have a break. Maybe she just wants to work some things out for herself, you'll just have to wait it out like Flink said. It's only been what, 4 days? Just give her some space. I'd say to give her a good amount of space and just don't keep pestering and hounding her, maybe she'll realise she misses you. I dunno though, that plan might backfire, I'm not really in the position to be giving advice about it.

The guy who introduced me to N-E(i was reading the front page for news ages before I joined the forums) is a member of the forums. Pretty good mate I'd say, but he joined about a year ago, and his last activity was like 3 days after that lol(checked his profile just now :p). Other than that, I don't think I know anyone on here in real life.

That's what I thought too, it was the only thing that really stood in the way of me being inclined to believe it though. Dan Dare, it's basically some guy saying that it's his job to get smaller countries into debt to america in a rather sneaky way in order to have leverage over them and control them, and if they refuse, someone will die.

I feel like I'm stuck in a car going along a long road, I'm not sure if I'm driving or not, but it feels like no one else is in the car and the doors are locked. If I look out of the windows I see lots of people everywhere doing things they want to and having fun, whilst I'm stuck in this car passing by. Sometimes it stops, and I see a few people and have some fun, but it seems to quickly pass and I'm in the car again back on my journey down this long road. I'm not even sure where it's headed, in the distance there are a few big hills that I can't see beyond, but the road winds round them and beyond. I can't see what's there, but I feel like it's going to be a good place, and I'm going to get where I'm going. I saw everyone else with their metaphors, and that was what appeared in my mind when I thought about it. The reailty is as follows; I'm coming up to the end of my 2nd year at uni, but I am living at home. Alot of my friends at uni live about the same distance away as me, but all in opposite directions, and so we don't go out much around there. All my friends I know from around here have all moved out to uni and stuff, so I find myself bored and stuck at home alot, when I'm the sort of person who loves going out. I tend to anticipate the holiday periods to see all my mates again and have a catchup, but it feels a bit like each time I see people, people seem to have drifted apart sort of thing, like they have better things to do than catch up(not just with me, so it isnt that people just hate me). It's sometimes annoying hearing about everyone's fantastic crazy uni stories too, whilst I'm here not having them. I feel like I'm commited to the course, I'm pretty much 2/3rds of the way through it, so I want to see it through to the end. The problems I have are only short term when I look at it like that, next year I'll be much free-er, and people will be back around and stuff. Finished my course and getting a degree, that's the bit where I read the hills, and start turning the corners to see what lies beyond. I'm single too, but that's not bothering me, I think about it sometimes and how nice it'd be to have someone but then think it's no big deal right at the moment in my life. I'm also still slightly, and irrationally, hung up on an old school boy crush. Despite all that, I'm fairly happy with what I have and who I am(the comfort of knowing how much money I'm saving consoles me too!), I try not to focus too much on the negative things, and I know it's not like everyone hates me or I don't have friends, it's just they're all a way away. I know this is only a temporary and short term situation, that'll be completely turned on its head in a year from now. Only problem I think I do have, is that I have absolutely no clue what I wanna do with my degree, or how easily I could get the sort of job I'd like with it. (didnt realise I wrote quite so much)

You should have been the bigger man. If you get excluded, then you're going to excluded for something you deserve, you've just tried and maybe even succeeded in ruining this guy's school life, which was already bad enough given that this supposed secret was out and everyone knew! Considering you were once mates, you shouldn't have done that if you were a real mate in my opinion. What was the need, honestly? You also should have tried to convince/prove to him that it wasn't you who let his secret out(are you honestly saying you didn't tell one single other person?). I think it's hard enough to keep a secret of yours between just yourself and one other person, beyond that there's no chance. Best way to keep a secret is to keep it to yourself. Besides, depending on how well this guy takes things, he may actually be able to pass through all this unscathed by what you've done, and I hope he does, and I hope you get into the biggest shit that you can.

OH GOD! I CAN'T STAND THE SUSPENSE!!! WHATEVER IS GOING TO HAPPEN?!??!?!?!!

Flink gave some good advice, though it won't apply if she's actually just looking for a quick shag, it might be she's not after some commited relationship with you.

It's getting a bit worse each week if you ask me, though I still like it.

I thought the same, but I was hoping it's just because of the way that was all captured. It looked terrible compared to spiderman 2's graphics on the xbox, and for something that is supposedly more powerful than the xbox, I expect better too. I won't be getting this until I have it confirmed that it doesn't look like shit. I'm not normally a graphics over gameplay person, but I think the reason I liked the xbox version is because it looked nice(the gameplay was a wee bit repetative)

Really? I'd have thought if you wanted to die you'd kill yourself, not cut your cock off. My more logical conclusion actually would have been some sort of gender idenity disorder(or other body image disorder), but given that they've re-attached it, I imagine that would have been explored first and they wouldn't have. He may have just had a really bad episode of paranoia or schizophrenia, I understand that they can do all sorts due to their hallucinations. I don't think this was much of a suicide attempt, either that or this guy was really shit at trying to kill himself. I don't think you can actually sue a hospital for saving you from an attempted suicide, and I believe suicide is actually a crime of sorts(might be wrong, as of course it doesn't ever get tried). Part of me thinks 'fat people not making an effort shouldnt get nhs treatment, let them die and hopefully their gluttonous genes will die with them'. That argument can be used for alot of things though, and we have apparently evolved into a moral society who don't condone such things. I do think some such self inflicted problems should have a lower priority of treatment though.

At first, I thought it was his hand on the bra, then I realised it wasn't, and started wondering too, he's got a bit of a cheeky grin on his face! Where is this supposedly infamous picture that hasn't graced my eyes?

A friend just told me about this, it's about 10 minutes long. It's interesting stuff and kind of scary, I thought I'd post it and see what you guys think. My mate says theres a part 2 where he gives billions of examples, but I haven't found that yet. http://youtube.com/watch?v=WjPoeQRewiE Just another conspiracy theory, or what?

Becuase they're asian, duh! That was pretty impressive, though I felt like I got bored easily. Brings back some good memories though!

Did you get a theasaurus recently and have been waiting for an awfully long time to use it, or what? As for what mike-zim is saying, I sort of see where he's coming from. Though in this circumstance, there isn't a big window of oppurtunity for reattaching the penis, and I reckon it'd be more costly to reconstruct him one at a later date. I know it's a strange question, but does anyone happen to know what hospital he was admitted to? I agree more with this, though I'm pretty sure general side of things and psychiatric side of things are handled by different parts of the NHS. So, his psychiatric care isn't exactly draining on the people with general health problems.

Well you can't have everything, so make a choice. As for a right answer, there isn't even a question! It's all a matter of choice and opinion as far as I can tell!

Go to the party and don't drink? Then you'll know that you'll at least be in a decent frame of mind?

I don't see why there is anything to ask about here? It looks like it's a decision left entirely up to you?

Only thing that annoys me is that bloody popup I get everytime, usually about some crappy smilies or something. I don't mind page ads, but popups piss me off.

I couldn't help but think that should preceed 'to rule them all', as in the lord of the rings ring, or a bad film trailer. As for what makes me happy, I think Flink's post actually hit on everything I would have considered things that actually bring happiness to me. Also, saving money makes me pretty happy. Spending well saved money in a well thought out way, or even more in a ridiculous way, but knowing that I can because I saved it so well, is rather happy making.

EDIT: DAMN YOU. (seriously though, some of this story is just plain terrible, THIS is the sort of stuff I hoped never to see on N-E, unless it's decent stuff and not just 'penis....something....Penis....vagoo....bumrape.....PENIS...' as it was a little bit on the first page)

... Doesn't everyone have massive foot orgies at the parties they go to? Haha, when I think about it it does remind me alot of how tapes used to unwind, then curl up. People thought I had a perm or something, but it was just naturally that bastard curly, hence why I cut it. It was like the most awkward thing, I had horrible morning hair and it hurt to brush it dry

I was browsing through some old stuff a friend had, and this is what I looked like at fireworks 2005, I kind of miss my lovely locks And yeah, that IS a really shiny blue shirt.

No, we shouldn't. Does it mean people are going to stop? Probably not.

She was the lead of Dark Angel, though she looks alot different to what she used to then. I remember I used to watch that. I wouldn't say she deserves to be in the top ten, something about her is just a bit 'meh'. Following from the spiderman thread, where's eliza dushku?! She should be in there!