@ Flamey, sorry to hear that I too have been there, please don't do what I did which was to ask again a few months later.
Hypothetical situation. Say you're in a wine shop on a Sunday afternoon, we'll call it Majestic. There's a hot guy walking around browsing and picking up wine, you keep passing each other and sharing a ''lustful glance''. I am actually laughing as I type this. Anyway. How do you start talking to him without sounding completely desperate? He should have talked to me, I am no good with this stuff. Again, alone, forever