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    Sorry to hear that man, but it might be the case that maybe Tinder isn't really suited to you? I wouldn't necessarily advise you to give up using it, but maybe getting yourself out there some nights with mates could help?

     

    Honestly, I have absolutely zero confidence so it's a bit contradictory for me to give a suggestion to muster up your confidence and attempt that. I've had very few relationships but I've been lucky and been friends with them before something happened.

     

    The only thing I can actually say, that has helped me, is to not avidly search for it. That has never worked for me personally and, like yourself, has felt demoralizing. I've had plenty of dates here that never progressed, and I ended up with a good friend here after a series of events and I think that in itself has made me even happier that I'm with them. I feel quite fortunate in that respect, but you never know what can happen. Just keep your chin up mate.

     

    Nights out are harder near me as moved to a new area so struggling to find people to go out with . Uni was so much easier than the real world dating wise

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    Still looking for a job and it's getting very depressing , masters degree and can't find anything at all . Feeling very isolated and considering the year started with me kissing my now ex girlfriend it all seems like a very very sick joke . Thing is she was still at uni so it's also caused the collapse of my entire social network and I'm starting to think I've turned my life into a get by excercise .

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