Posted August 10, 2014 It's amazing you lot have ladies. Jesus christ :P I know, I'm amazed mys- oh wait... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 10, 2014 I'm charming and you know it. So, what are you wearing? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 So last night I went out for some tea / dinner (dependng on where you're from!) wth my sisters at a local pub grub style place. There's this guy who works there who is completely and utterly . I've seen him there before and each time I've been we've kinda had a little look, well I have but kinda got the impression he may have too. Like each time he walked past the table he always looked, or if he was by the till (where we were sat) he would look over. At one point he walked past the table with another waitress and I heard him say to her "this guy..." to which I heard her say, "oh really? No not for me..." to which he said "well I did't mean the girl!" Or something like that. I didn't get the last bit properly though. Now this may just be me reading into things as usual, but you know when you just get the impression that someone else is kind of looking at you as much as you're looking at them? I don't really know why I'm posting either coz it isn't like I can do anything about it. Nor would I necessarily know what to do about it. To add a further twist, I know his name as he is a mutual friend of a lad who goes to my gym. He was tagged into a photo with him the other week and I knew I recognised him but didn't twig until last night that it was him. So yeah. Pretty pointless post. Apparently we're going to this place again on Sunday for a roast dinner. So that'll be interesting. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 So last night I went out for some tea / dinner (dependng on where you're from!) wth my sisters at a local pub grub style place. There's this guy who works there who is completely and utterly . I've seen him there before and each time I've been we've kinda had a little look, well I have but kinda got the impression he may have too. Like each time he walked past the table he always looked, or if he was by the till (where we were sat) he would look over. At one point he walked past the table with another waitress and I heard him say to her "this guy..." to which I heard her say, "oh really? No not for me..." to which he said "well I did't mean the girl!" Or something like that. I didn't get the last bit properly though. Now this may just be me reading into things as usual, but you know when you just get the impression that someone else is kind of looking at you as much as you're looking at them? I don't really know why I'm posting either coz it isn't like I can do anything about it. Nor would I necessarily know what to do about it. To add a further twist, I know his name as he is a mutual friend of a lad who goes to my gym. He was tagged into a photo with him the other week and I knew I recognised him but didn't twig until last night that it was him. So yeah. Pretty pointless post. Apparently we're going to this place again on Sunday for a roast dinner. So that'll be interesting. Ask him out. Say "You alright, sweet cheeks? How's about we have a bit of dinner, go out and see a movie or something and then go back to yours for a coffee session!" and then give him a cheeky wink and a pat on the arse! Works for me all of the time! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 @Anares11 talk to him, ask him out. Coffee is always good. But please don't follow @Animal's advice. :p Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 Hahaha @Animal - incredible. I'll give it a whirl. I was telling my mate at work today - she wants us to go for something to eat there one night and she's gonna weigh it up and intervene haha. He was completely delicious to be fair. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 So it's over. and I feel absolutely horrible even though this is what I wanted. Got to go through these feels first Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 Now this may just be me reading into things as usual, but you know when you just get the impression that someone else is kind of looking at you as much as you're looking at them? Yeah, I know what you mean. Happens to us all! I suppose it's when you get two shy people (no offence intended) it can be a bit confusing. There is a girl I see in three places - where I work, where she works and in the gym. When we're in the gym, I see her looking at my back every time I'm up against the mirror. If I try to smile at her she looks away, but then I go and do another exercise and I see her looking over again! When I see her at her workplace, she pretty much ignores me; whereas when she comes to my workplace she ignores me if she sees me trying to smile at her, but last time she came in she called out "hello" to me with a massive smile. I'm knowing I'm being a massive wuss, but I get on with flirty girls really easily. As I say, it's when you get two people who are more introverted. They say opposites attract, but you can be physically attracted to any type - it's just the opposites who actually get together! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 Yeah, I know what you mean. Happens to us all! I suppose it's when you get two shy people (no offence intended) it can be a bit confusing. There is a girl I see in three places - where I work, where she works and in the gym. When we're in the gym, I see her looking at my back every time I'm up against the mirror. If I try to smile at her she looks away, but then I go and do another exercise and I see her looking over again! When I see her at her workplace, she pretty much ignores me; whereas when she comes to my workplace she ignores me if she sees me trying to smile at her, but last time she came in she called out "hello" to me with a massive smile. I'm knowing I'm being a massive wuss, but I get on with flirty girls really easily. As I say, it's when you get two people who are more introverted. They say opposites attract, but you can be physically attracted to any type - it's just the opposites who actually get together! Ooh this sounds promising though Grazza! Do you like her - as in physically? I guess that's all anyone has to go on for a first impression unless you actually speak to them. With this guy, I felt like we were both checking each other out. How horrible to be completely wrong though. That would suck! I am really tempted just to go this place again for drinks with a friend. There is a bar area where you can just grab a drink, so it wouldn't be too our of the ordinary. Also, I noticed he worked on the bar sporadically last night too, so maybe I could ask for a SEX... on the beach, or something if he serves me. We'll see. Who knows, maybe something will come of it. Beats wondering what if I guess. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 The Tinder girl hasn't responded to my latest text, yet. I kinda hate trying to have a conversation via Tinder. I might just go for the Hail Mary Pass and ask whether she'd like to have my number so we can communicate easier (via WhatsApp or something). I'd also have a bit of clarity whether she's interesting in keeping the conversation going or not Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 Ooh this sounds promising though Grazza! Do you like her - as in physically? I guess that's all anyone has to go on for a first impression unless you actually speak to them. Yeah, definitely! To be honest, I suspect it's a case of mutual attraction, but neither of us too serious about anything else. I mean, she looks 18 and I'm 36 - exactly double! - plus she's often with a boyfriend her own age! Not necessarily saying I want to ask her out, just that I think there's definitely a physical attraction between us. Also, I noticed he worked on the bar sporadically last night too, so maybe I could ask for a SEX... on the beach, or something if he serves me. Nice and subtle. I normally get a restraining order for that sort of behaviour! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 I might just go for the Hail Mary Pass and ask whether she'd like to have my number so we can communicate easier (via WhatsApp or something). Soooo, I did. Went for (roughly translated): "I find it difficult to communicate properly via Tinder, so if you want I can give you my number so we can chat on WhatsApp." And her response... "Sure [her number]" It's that simple, guys. : peace: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 Very good work drahkon. Keep us updated! Also, @Grazza, that's not cool that she has a boyfriend! Well, for you I mean . But who knows, maybe one day things will turn pear shaped with them and you can swoop in. : peace: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 Very good work drahkon. Keep us updated! Well, we've exchanged some messages She doesn't seem to use her phone that often, though. Which I find awesome. In this situation, though, it's a bit shit as a conversation can't really go on Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 OK. I think I have a good chance of talking to bus girl again/finally asking her out. Question is, should I do it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 OK. I think I have a good chance of talking to bus girl again/finally asking her out. Question is, should I do it? No. Continue to beat yourself up and don't take this chance. DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE. YES. Do it! If you don't, I'll kill you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 OK. I think I have a good chance of talking to bus girl again/finally asking her out. Question is, should I do it? Of course you should, silly question. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 OK. I think I have a good chance of talking to bus girl again/finally asking her out. Question is, should I do it? You're still asking this question? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 You're still asking this question? Lol. I dunno, I got nervous. I know what the answer is. If I see her tomorrow I'll talk to her. I'll prepare my "rejected" post. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 I'll prepare my "rejected" post. :p Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 OK. I think I have a good chance of talking to bus girl again/finally asking her out. Question is, should I do it? Fucks sake. Get on with it lad! Haha! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 13, 2014 Lol. I dunno, I got nervous. I know what the answer is. If I see her tomorrow I'll talk to her. I'll prepare my "rejected" post. My advice, if you don't do it tomorrow move on. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 14, 2014 Lol. I dunno, I got nervous. I know what the answer is. If I see her tomorrow I'll talk to her. I'll prepare my "rejected" post. Come on, update us! I'm dying here. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 14, 2014 Come on, update us! I'm dying here. "I have a boyfriend" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
