Posted October 30, 2005 a pub or bar thats not too loud is a very good place to go on a first dateyou can have a good chat and get to know each other. its always worked for me. going out for a meal rarely works for a first date as you both dont wanna eat much infront of each other and some girls dont like eating infront of men especially on the first date... so ditch the meal idea if you only just met. as you say you already have a girlfriend so the other ideas people have suggested are good very good. but how about a bottle of wine and a film to watch in doors. i like them kinda nights, especially now winter is approaching you can get all snuggly and cozy together. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 If you live around london and quite close to canary wharf the jubilee gardens are amazing at night, its so ridiculously peaceful i wanted to take this one girl there but after coming back from my holidays - i never heard from her again cos she was so busy with work. Oh well, but yeah parks and such are amazing places to just relax and get to know each other and if you know her already just to sit and talk really with no real distractions, plus jubilee gardens have this amazing water fountain its insanely beautiful and tranquil! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Take her to the footie, failing that a night out normally does it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 I don't know really, I don't take my girlfriend out on "dates" as such. We just hang out together, in rather usual and normal places. Like today just sat on a bench for a couple of hours talking. Either that or round each other's houses, or just shopping together. That sort of stuff. If you find yourself trying to think of what to say all the time and just moan to each other, "what do you want to do?" all the time then I don't think you should be going out. im with u... post count thingy.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Invite her over to watch a fairly short movie in the evening, preferably something not too heavy on the mind, but not too shallow either. After the movie finishes you can offer her a drink, put some nice calm music on, and then just talk and get to know each other. Chances are, during the movie, you'll have both grown much more comfortable with each other's presence, so talking will be no problem. The time will then whisk by, and before you know it it'll be fairly late. You can then offer her a lift home (if you drive), or offer to walk her (which is slightly more romantic, I must say) to the bus-stop, train-station or whereever. If she declines the offer, then you can treat that as some kind of indication. However if she agrees, then it's at least a sign she appreciates your company and feels comfortable around you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 I don't know really, I don't take my girlfriend out on "dates" as such. We just hang out together, in rather usual and normal places. Like today just sat on a bench for a couple of hours talking. Either that or round each other's houses, or just shopping together. That sort of stuff. If you find yourself trying to think of what to say all the time and just moan to each other, "what do you want to do?" all the time then I don't think you should be going out. That's what we are doing, too. We just hang out together at normal places, go to a mall and window shop or just take a little walk in the forest nearby. And sometimes we go to the cinema if there's a movie we really want to see. Usually we play videogames and use the computers. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Usually we play videogames and use the computers. haha thas a good one lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Invite her over to watch a fairly short movie in the evening, preferably something not too heavy on the mind, but not too shallow either. After the movie finishes you can offer her a drink, put some nice calm music on, and then just talk and get to know each other. Chances are, during the movie, you'll have both grown much more comfortable with each other's presence, so talking will be no problem. The time will then whisk by, and before you know it it'll be fairly late. You can then offer her a lift home (if you drive), or offer to walk her (which is slightly more romantic, I must say) to the bus-stop, train-station or whereever. If she declines the offer, then you can treat that as some kind of indication. However if she agrees, then it's at least a sign she appreciates your company and feels comfortable around you. Its during that walk back that you must move in for the kill.....or so my friends tell me. Walking can actually be pretty romantic, especially at night, in the dark when its nice and peaceful - and your just holding hands laughing and giggling and casually kicking little pebbles about. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Its during that walk back that you must move in for the kill.....or so my friends tell me. Walking can actually be pretty romantic, especially at night, in the dark when its nice and peaceful - and your just holding hands laughing and giggling and casually kicking little pebbles about. Then an old fiesta drives by, blue neons on the bonnit arms out off the windows and thumping bass from the inside. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Then an old fiesta drives by, blue neons on the bonnit arms out off the windows and thumping bass from the inside. Then you inadvertantly kick a pebble at the speeding Fiesta. Its bald tyres allow the Fiesta to come to a screeching holt...the bass stops suddenly and three tall chav males unfold themself from the hunk of junk. One is slightly less eliqent though as hes Nike trakies get caught in the door as he stumbles out. 'Oi...Mush...did you kick that stone at ma wheels...mush...' Without further conversing the chavs go to set on you and your female friend, and the date is ruined as you stumble back home with a black eye, and a broken nose, and minus a girlfriend as she has been bundled into the back of the Fiesta is it speeds orf to plunder and pillage her in some remote dogging location. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 haha thas a good one lol It's true. :| .... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 It's true. :| .... Eh it's what I used to do, when I wasn't err, doing intimate things. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 It's true. :| .... Ellen is a rare breed of girl. Known as a "Gaming Female" and also a (no disrespect because i reguard myself as one a "Female Geek" very rare and hard to find one. Bastard Goomba *shakes fist* Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Ellen is a rare breed of girl. Not if you know the secret..... Take 6 broken eggs and breed and hatch them under a twelve pound toad. The eggs MUST hatch during full moon or it won't work! You will then recieve 1 Female Gamer. Cost: 500.000 tribute Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Not if you know the secret..... Take 6 broken eggs and breed and hatch them under a twelve pound toad. The eggs MUST hatch during full moon or it won't work! You will then recieve 1 Female Gamer. Cost: 500.000 tribute Hmmmm - how long does it take for the Female Gamer to reach sexual maturity? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Hmmmm - how long does it take for the Female Gamer to reach sexual maturity? Four days. RTFM. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Four days. RTFM. Right. No..thats wrong, really really wrong. Your obsc... *runs off to find a fat toad* Edit - Hang on a second, Jord, do you mean you refer to yourself as a Female Geek? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 *hoards all the toads* I HAVE THE MONOPOLY ON THEM NOW I'LL BE RICH! RICH I TELL YOU! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Ellen is a rare breed of girl. Known as a "Gaming Female" and also a (no disrespect because i reguard myself as one a "Female Geek" very rare and hard to find one. Bastard Goomba *shakes fist* wtf? XD I know there are some out there :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 I can just imagine Goomba warning all the other geeks orf that look at Ellen.... 'Stay away...I've got linux!' *brandishes a laptop running a Linux Distro* 'I'l show all you XP users how to download porn like a real man'! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Its not the place that matters, its the person you are with. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Its not the place that matters, its the person you are with. Stay on topic Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Ths thread went from being good, to fucking hilarious. Kudos to Offerman, Dieter. Jordan and Piro. + Fake rep for all. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2005 Invite a loada mates around and ask if they want to play soggy biscuit. She can watch and good time will be had by all. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
