jayseven

[2 of 3] Mokong didn't vote for himself. He didn't say "look how successful I've been - aren't I great" Someone else nominated him because they believed the things he had done amount to a success. If you didn't agree with that, fair enough. No one was being made to vote for him. But there is a world of difference between saying, well I thing person x is more worthy of this award and I think Mokong is "failing at life". I see that as a personal attack. And throwing around a bunch of disclaimers about how "it's nothing personal" and how he doesn't know anything of his circumstances makes it even worse. Of course, once Mokog replies, suddenly the user is now all things expert on the guy and he falls in line with the assumptions he made about the fella. Assumptions he's formed out of think air because he's already admitted to knowing precisely nothing about him.